So we have been using LAM to prevent getting pregnant again up until about a month ago. I have a doctors appointment to get on birth control in a week and a half but my husband is guilting me about us not having sex.
I told him I would have sex as long as he at least pulled out (I know that's not completely effective but my cycles haven't returned yet so I would be willing to risk it). He told me he would not pull out and also refuses to wear a condom.
He told me he would not mind me getting pregnant again right now but I just don't feel like it's the right time. Our son is 4 and 1/2 months old and I want to spend some time with just him before we have another addition (I told hubby we could start trying again when our son turns 1. I also just got laid off last week and somehow I doubt being preggo would aid me in finding a new job.
I've tried telling him all this and he just tells me I shouldn't worry so much. I'm so frustrated!
I told him I would have sex as long as he at least pulled out (I know that's not completely effective but my cycles haven't returned yet so I would be willing to risk it). He told me he would not pull out and also refuses to wear a condom.
He told me he would not mind me getting pregnant again right now but I just don't feel like it's the right time. Our son is 4 and 1/2 months old and I want to spend some time with just him before we have another addition (I told hubby we could start trying again when our son turns 1. I also just got laid off last week and somehow I doubt being preggo would aid me in finding a new job.
I've tried telling him all this and he just tells me I shouldn't worry so much. I'm so frustrated!
