Husband anxiety...

[Diddy2013]

I'm nervous enough all on my own, with how long it took to become pregnant, with our miscarriage, and being pregnant again.

My husbands even worse!!! We had a scan at 7w everything looked good and had a good heart beat. He wakes up this morning 9w2d and is googling heart rates and freaking out about it. He looked up private facility for scans and had me call my dr and sound ridiculous.

Anyone else have a husband being more anxious and just making everything more nerve wracking?!

 

[flou]

Throughout this pregnancy my husband keeps asking me how I am feeling with what feels like every 5 mins. It has taken us over 3 years and 2 losses to get to this point. And I know he only does it because he cares but sometimes I need him to be voice of reason. If I tell him about an ache or pain he will question is that normal? When all I want is reassurance. It normally ends up being me who reassures him!

 

[Diddy2013]

Throughout this pregnancy my husband keeps asking me how I am feeling with what feels like every 5 mins. It has taken us over 3 years and 2 losses to get to this point. And I know he only does it because he cares but sometimes I need him to be voice of reason. If I tell him about an ache or pain he will question is that normal? When all I want is reassurance. It normally ends up being me who reassures him!

I feel bad that most the time my response is, I've never made it this far in a pregnancy so I have no idea! I hope it gets better if we make it to 12 weeks...almost there.

 

[mamaxs4]

my hubby is actually fairly reassuring. He encourages the bedrest in his own way. He cleaned and organized the house! Washed and put away the clothes! And makes remarks of haven't you been up too long. It's been 3 yrs since the loss of our last baby and its not fresh on his mind. Maybe its just fresher on your husbands mind and he's worried.

 

[Diddy2013]

He has always been more anxious and it probably is fresh. I told him no more dr google! What will be will be.