Husband won't ntnp!!

[Beccaboop]

I suggested that we start ntnp now instead of just TTC in October but it coursed an argument between us because he said I wad trying to trick him into getting pregnant before the time we have decided to which isn't true at all!! :sad:

 

[mummymarsh]

ahhh boo... what difference will couple of mnoths make xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Not good!! What are your reasons for wtt? X

 

[FragileDoll]

Aww, hun. I feel for you, my DH said the same and it deep down crush me inside. I felt like he doesn't love me enough or do not want a family and so many negative things run on my mind. Although, he told me his reasons and I totally understand. And we are NTNP now.

I'm sure he had his reasons for not TTC, you can talk to him or it never hurts to wait a while yet I know it's frustrating. Hope you feel better, hun. Lots of baby dust to you.

 

[MackMomma8]

For a lot of men, I think to them NTNP is the same thing as TTC. I know that's the case with mine! They figure if there is ANY chance you can get you pregnant, then you're 'trying'!

 

[Augie]

Men can be soooo insecure. Maybe give him some time to process. For guys, TTC or NTNP is a huge deal to them! It was huge and still is with my guy.

 

[CeeDee]

Since it takes two to tango maybe you can come to a compromise like maybe NTNP starting mid-August and than TTC in October. Trying working on a compromise.

 

[Jess137]

Are you on birth control pills? I stopped mine a few months ago and DH knew about it. But he just decided he didn't care if we got pg sooner I guess because one day he just didn't pull out or use a condom, and we haven't ever since then.

I guess I'm saying that maybe he will come around. Sorry I don't have any good advice!

 

[beccad]

I think most men think NTNP and TTC are the same thing. My husband wouldn't have a clue, and presumably he thinks you're suddenly wanting to fall pregnant now, rather than starting in October, so I can see why he's said what he did.

Most people fall pregnant without having to resort to taking temperatures and peeing on OPKs.

 

[Bunnikins]

Yeah t hey are annoying arent they! I find it best to come up with logical reason, and then their brain will tick away and eventually come round to your way of thinking!