I cant handle activly trying anymore

[tddunn]

So my Dh and I have been trying for 5 months. I confirmed MC and 1 suspected chemical has happened within those 5 months. I'm now no longer wanting to actively try. I have never had high blood pressure but it was at an all time high just 2 days ago. I walked by a mirror and didn't even recognize that sad looking girl in the mirror so I am letting nature take it's course. It will happen eventually. I'm still a bit sad and eager to get my bfp that sticks but I'm now focusing on the marriage I want to bring a child into and the me I want to be. Its hard but I know God has a plan for me already and worrying about it will do me no good.

 

[tkeith8109]

I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time. With our first we tried for 5 months, the last month I had decided that if it didn't happen this time I was not going to actively try anymore and I was going to let nature take it's course. 2 weeks later I got my BFP and now I have a beautiful 3 year old girl. I really think that taking that pressure off of yourself will help. Like you said, it can get depressing and you want to bring a child into a happy family and you want to be the best person and wife you can be. Good luck to you and your husband and hope that you get your BFP soon.`

 

[itsnowmyturn]

I hope a more relaxed approach works better for u. It's good that u realised it was affecting u, some ppl don't and it completely changes who they are. Good luck huni x

 

[rooster100]

Good luck! You will be fine! Relaxing is the best thing for you to do! I hated people telling me that but when I finally relaxed (gave up) it happened! I had a m/c and a chemical too...I got my bfp 3 months after the chemical so you never know what's around the corner!
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