ShadowSeer
Mummy to Savannah.
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I went to see my consultant Wednesday, and everything with me and my heart is perfectly fine. No change to blood presure, the hole in my Aorta....its all 'normal' (for me anyway).
So I ask when I will get to hear the baby's heartbeat, and have all the usual checks for the BABY. She said because I am consultant led, the baby 'doesnt matter' and that the only important thing is making sure I survive the pregnancy. I really pissed off. I really want to know if my baby is ok, and I have no way of knowing. I might not even get an anomaly scan, but my midwife who I saw at 8 weeks is going to push it so I hopfully I do....
Has anyone had any problems like this, where medical staff/consultants are only worried about you rather then the baby? xx
P.s. Not been online for AGES! Home internet sucks atm.xxxx.
So I ask when I will get to hear the baby's heartbeat, and have all the usual checks for the BABY. She said because I am consultant led, the baby 'doesnt matter' and that the only important thing is making sure I survive the pregnancy. I really pissed off. I really want to know if my baby is ok, and I have no way of knowing. I might not even get an anomaly scan, but my midwife who I saw at 8 weeks is going to push it so I hopfully I do....
Has anyone had any problems like this, where medical staff/consultants are only worried about you rather then the baby? xx
P.s. Not been online for AGES! Home internet sucks atm.xxxx.