isaiahfaith
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I am a bit of an anxious person to begin with. Mix that with pregnancy hormones and a subchorionic bleed and you have one crazy mama. So, I occasionally do some reading on groups about the hematoma situation and scare myself sh%tless whenever I see that someone miscarried or went into preterm labor or had a stillbirth and they think it was because of the bleed. A lot of people say the risk of problems increases with this, yet I have asked my OB and she said I am at no greater risk for miscarriage, ptl, pprom etc. She said if I was going to miscarry it would have already happened with this thing and that I am definitely in the group that should continue on to have a good pregnancy because baby looked good at 8 weeks. So why can't I believe her? I continue to be paranoid that she says it to make me feel better, since I have read horror stories on the Internet. My hubby reminds me that she said all this and that I should stop applying other people's situations to my case since every case can be so different. He is right but I am so flippin scared this pregnancy, I feel like a total whacko. Common sense should tell me it will be okay... even my doctor said so and the hematoma is not near the baby and is tiny according to her..yet I obsess. You are all going to think I am so pathetic. But I feel like I am going crazy over this... as you can tell my first tri hormones really are known to screw me up sorry for the rant. I really need advice on chilling out and really putting things in God's hands.