... that my partners family have something against us having this baby... I know it might just be weird pregnant logic, but I just realised after responding the "does anybody know" thread that my partners family haven't bought anything for the baby at all. Not an item of clothing, teddy bear or nappy... absolutely nothing... My family, specifically my parents, have bought heaps of stuff for us and the baby. My brother, who is a punk rocker, found baby clothes with pictures of skulls and electric guitars on them, which... is... very sweet... and... a little weird... but his way expressing love! My grandparents have bought things, my Nanna has knitted clothes, my friends have all largely contributed to his clothing (errr... they probably should have discussed what they were buying amongst themselves, as at my baby shower I recieved 27 tops in size 000 and not much else... oops!) I dont know if its materialistic to base my opinion on that, but it seems weird to me that they've had no interest in contributing anything to the baby. Maybe I'm jumping too early, the baby isn't actually here yet... but... I dont know... it just seems a bit weird.