I have been thinking and i have an idea! All us girls spend every month charting and calculating the perscise day to achieve that long waited BFP. We temp and observe CM, spot every symptom, try what ever remedies a mother, dr, sister, nurse or friend can suggest to us. They say that there is only a 24hr time frame that conception can occur (so it makes it rather hard to determine when that could be) and since every cycle is different of every women its hard to tell if were doing the mommy and daddy dance when we should. So i pose a question.......... If you do the bedroom tango every day from CD1 all the way until AF arrives (hopefully this cycle she wont show) could that take all the calculating and charting away? DH and I are trying a little experiment. Were DTD twice a day (morning and night) every day until AF arrives (if she does) We have only been trying this method for the last couple days (im on CD7 right now) One thing that i have noticed with frequently DTD its actually making TTC very fun this month (not to mention DH is thrilled by the idea). Instead of the charted and scheduled bedroom time, were having fun with it. Sometimes more than twice a day! Its taking the stress of TTC out of the picture (because we know were not missing any days) so were back to just having fun with each other. If anyone had tried this approach let me know how it turned out for you, or anyone have any comments? im all ears (or should i say eyes lol) Good luck to everyone this cycle!