dakotadawn
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Hello all!
I have not been on here in over a year, and right now I think this is the exact place I need to be. The last time I was on here I was engaged, had a house, and we were NTNP. He and I ended up going our separate ways, and shortly after I found out I was expecting, but it didn't look too good. It in fact did not last past 7 weeks. I only knew I was expecting for three days before it was taken from me... and he didn't believe me, and I only told a few friends. Nobody knows to this day.
A little over a year later, and here I am! I have an incredible new boyfriend I've been seeing for 13 months, and he is absolutely the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have enrolled back in to school, and he and I are living 100 miles apart while he goes to his university too. We plan on moving in together in May when I graduate. He wants kids... but not for years. like... 8. or so.
I can handle putting off having children for a few years, that isn't my first concern. My concern is my little cousin just married in August and is now expecting and I'm not taking the news too lightly. How do I keep these jealousies and frustrations from consuming me? I have absolutely no single(unmarried) and childless friends now. I know nobody without a husband/wife and children... Help me.
I have not been on here in over a year, and right now I think this is the exact place I need to be. The last time I was on here I was engaged, had a house, and we were NTNP. He and I ended up going our separate ways, and shortly after I found out I was expecting, but it didn't look too good. It in fact did not last past 7 weeks. I only knew I was expecting for three days before it was taken from me... and he didn't believe me, and I only told a few friends. Nobody knows to this day.
A little over a year later, and here I am! I have an incredible new boyfriend I've been seeing for 13 months, and he is absolutely the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have enrolled back in to school, and he and I are living 100 miles apart while he goes to his university too. We plan on moving in together in May when I graduate. He wants kids... but not for years. like... 8. or so.
I can handle putting off having children for a few years, that isn't my first concern. My concern is my little cousin just married in August and is now expecting and I'm not taking the news too lightly. How do I keep these jealousies and frustrations from consuming me? I have absolutely no single(unmarried) and childless friends now. I know nobody without a husband/wife and children... Help me.