nickelnater
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I have 2 boys already oldest is almost 3 and youngest just turned 1. We were done having kids but weren't really doing anything about it so im 12 weeks preg with #3.
In the beginning I was convinced it was a girl. Now I just know it will be another boy. I'm tired of all the comments "i hope its another boy so they can all be brothers" or "i really hope its a girl you need a girl" I just want to cry when I hear these things. Of course I want a girl.
But deep down I know that it's never going to happen to me. It doesn't help that my two boys have developmental delays. We were done after two kids. I was sad and had GD when I found out DS2 was a boy but I had come to terms that I would only have two boys. Now I have to deal with the heartbreak all over again.
I had put up my 12 week scan and it confirmed it with all the "boy!!" and "
!!!!" responses. I literally cannot handle another boy. Of course the baby would be loved no matter what but I cannot handle the heartbreak of this when I know deep down what is in the cards for me. 
In the beginning I was convinced it was a girl. Now I just know it will be another boy. I'm tired of all the comments "i hope its another boy so they can all be brothers" or "i really hope its a girl you need a girl" I just want to cry when I hear these things. Of course I want a girl.
But deep down I know that it's never going to happen to me. It doesn't help that my two boys have developmental delays. We were done after two kids. I was sad and had GD when I found out DS2 was a boy but I had come to terms that I would only have two boys. Now I have to deal with the heartbreak all over again.
I had put up my 12 week scan and it confirmed it with all the "boy!!" and "
!!!!" responses. I literally cannot handle another boy. Of course the baby would be loved no matter what but I cannot handle the heartbreak of this when I know deep down what is in the cards for me. 
im still having a very hard time believing it though. I know it it had of been another boy i would have been so upset ( but loved just as much ) its just so hard when everyone throws their two cents worth in.
news. Will you find out at your 20 week scan?
I was convinced I would never have a daughter, and I ended up with one... if you're anything like me, you're a bit of a pessimist (I think I do it as a self defence mechanism), but it's always totally possible that this is your girl in there 
