...but if anyone can put my mind at ease it would be appreciated! Basically I'm 16 weeks today - 12 week scan was all fine - what is weird is I don't particularly feel pregnant at all - my boobs are still pretty sore and I have a slight bump but it looks more like a flabby belly than a proper bump iykwim? I haven't put on any weight (although I started off on the upper weight limit for my height ) Should I be particularly big at this stage or could it be the next few weeks is when bump starts to grow? I have my midwife appt on Weds - not sure whether they have a doppler (do they usually?) but hearing the heartbeat would greatly reduce my worrying I'm sure!!! I feel so silly as I waited soooooo long to get preggo and now I am I just spend time worrying about everything which I know is only natural - I suppose my biggest worry is that the baby dies and I don't know about it until my next scan - I know this may sound silly but that is what I actually spend all day thinking about... I don't even dare to think about what I might buy (cot, pram, clothes etc) as I'm scared it will jinx it..