I literally hate my OHs family

[jozylynn896]

I never really cared much for them before the pregnancy. I'm so mad that he still hasn't told them and I'm already almost 6 months pregnant! It just makes me so angry.
So the other day me and my OH are walking to the bus stop as we just left Target. And his brother pulls upto the light that's by the stop. He told us to get into the car and so we did. We then went to target together. (Again). So that we would have a ride home.
Well we went because he wanted to buy a movie. So when we were checking out, there was this cute little baby sleeping bag and I was just looking at it and I just wanted to scream and cry.
I wanted to say "Look babe we should get this one for our little boy!" But I FUCKING COULDN'T.
It bothered me so freaking bad. So then I had to make sure my already fucking huge stomach didn't pop out too noticabley.
And the thing I really hate..
Please don't judge me.
When I'm around his family.. I just wish I wasn't pregnant. Idk.. Don't get me wrong I love my son more than any thing. I just feel like.. My family took it so well, congratulating me, supporting me. And his family won't. I think its just his family is like this big freaking slap in the face of reality.. It sucks.
But I was just so mad and angry..
Like literally when I'm with them I just look at my stomach like WTF I CANT HAVE A KID.. Why didn't I just have an ..abortion.. Then my whole rest of my day is ruined.. Then the next day I'll hold my belly and tell my baby boy I didn't mean it..
:""(
Am I a bad mom already?! I know I love my son but reality is such a harsh thing. I just hate being judged in this fucking situation that it makes me think things like that..

 

[lizmageeful]

I know the feeling! My FOB's family is totally unsupportive of us, and of the pregnancy. We told them one day after we told my family, and it was 2 totally different experiences. Well, safe to say my FOB is now living with me and my family. When we got our ultrasound at 18 weeks, we took the picture to them and they essentially threw it back in our face telling us he would never be their grandchild. and they never liked me to begin with.

BUT, i still think you should tell them, and soon. they might surprise you. also, you only have 3 months left, and soon enough they are gonna notice a baby is in the picture.

 

[jozylynn896]

I want to tell them so freaking bad! But I also want to respect that my OH needs some time.. But I've been freaking giving him time for 6 months! I want him to tell them with me. As a couple, and as parents. But he's just so scared..
I always tell him about how we're gonna be okay. And we always talk about how just as long as he have each other, we're gonna be okay. But he's still scared :/ I love him a lot and I hate seeing him so scared but Jesus Christ its just getting do hard for ME. :/

 

[lizmageeful]

Ok, this might sound a bit harsh, but he needs to man the hell up. you're almost 6 months in. this is ridiculous. Hes gonna be a father. he needs to be able to tell his parents something thats this important.

 

[jozylynn896]

I tell him that all of the time.
He doesn't understand that he's just making it worse and worse on himself the long he waits.
I would rather have my child tell me "mom I got my girlfriend pregnant and we really need your help through the next 9 months" than "mom my girlfriends 6 months pregnant".

 

[x__amour]

They have to know. There's no getting around it. I don't think they're going to like it that he's been hiding it for 6 months either.

 

[jozylynn896]

I know
I never liked them. They're just bad people.
They put themselves so above everybody else, even they're own family. I really don't want my son growing up with them either.

 

[x__amour]

You have to remember that they're your LO's grandparents. Trust me, I know how you feel but you can't pick and choose. You want to be with your OH, you know that they are part of that deal.

 

[jozylynn896]

I just know they won't treat him like their grandchild. His sister won't treat him like a nephew.
If they ever look at my son bad I would kill them.

 

[ClairAye]

They need to know but after that it's their choice! I hate my OH's mum, she was a twisted cow when LO was in ICU after we almost lost him at only 4 weeks, trying to make it all about herself! I only like his older sister! I wish I could keep the rest away but if they ever decide to make an effort I can't stop them :/ Sorry I got quite personal but that's why I hate her. But she is LO's Granny (by blood - almost 7 months and she hasn't met him yet and tries to act the victim)

 

[jozylynn896]

Wow! That's terrible
I'm so sorry
I know I will give them a chance but after that I don't feel like they'll deserve to know someone as amazing as my little William