I Need A Hug!

[Suz]

I have the TTC Blues Girls.....

TTCing since Julyish of 2006 and nothing... Not even one BFP..... I feel broken! OLD Worthless And now...It hits me...Im going to be 33 in April... All my friends I grew up with, I mean ALL have kids...Some have 3 and a 4th on the way and I dont have any.....I will be a great Mom...When will it be my turn...?

 

[Vickie]

 

[pinkmommy]

Have you seen DR? Maybe they could help you! HUGS

 

[Carolina]

i really feel for you suz! thats so unfair! ive had the blues the last 2 days and its only my 5th month so i can only imagine how you are feeling! I really hope you get your bfp soon i know all the girls would be estatic! We are all routing for you!!

 

[diva4180]

 

[miel]

you will be a good mom...i am sure 2008 is the year!
sending you a big big hug

 

[Suz]

Awe Thank you Girls. It means alot to me that you are all Rooting for me

I havent yet got to the dr for testing because I havent faced the facts yet that there could be a problem...

 

[Carolina]

i was a bit scared to go to the gynae but i just something was wrong, im used to doctors and i wanted to know. I found out i have endo but im happy because i now know i have it! I can get a lap done if i want to remove any scar tissue if there is any ...but im gona give myself 6 months before considering that! What im trying to say is that i was happy to know something was wrong because it gave me answers and i knew i wasnt going mad! Plus there are solutions to the problems! So when your ready i would def recommemd it its helped me!!

 

[Mynxie]

Oh sweetheart (((hugs))) it's all so cruel xxxxxx

 

[Suz]

I just wonder if its me....I have posted in the girly room but OH well... lets just make it public My hubby has a drinking problem...... I know I post about drinking... but I dont get drunk every night....but hubby does...And part of me blames him

 

[Carolina]

i sent you a pm!

 

[Vickie]

Suz, I don't know what to say. I know (from personal experience-my biological father was an alcoholic) how hard it can be on a wife to live with someone who has an alcohol problem. It nearly destroyed my mother (he was abusive too when drunk so that compounded the problem). If you ever need to talk you know I'm there for you

 

[NeyNey]

Oh sweetie

 

[Wobbles]

BIG hugs for you

As Ive said before you want to figure if your present ties in with your future hun

I hope 2008 is your year

 

[sophie]

Oh Suzy, im so sorry ur feeling this way.
I really hope 2008 is your year an i will be praying that it is hun.
xxxxx

 

[poppy]

Suz, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling down hun. I think the whole ttc gets to us all sometimes no matter how long you have been trying, but it must be worse if you have been trying for a long time. Like others have said, maybe you should speak to your doctor about it. I know you said you fear the worst, but it could be something easily sorted out. Also, if you worry that your DH's alcohol consumption could be a problem with fertility, you could get the doctor to give you some advice about that.

I really hope you feel better soon and get that BFP. You are always there for the girls on B&B and it is high time that you get the happy news that you deserve.

xxx

Your symptoms are looking good this month!

 

[Sinead]

It will happen for you

 

[polo_princess]

oh hunni sorry your having a bit of a tough time at the mo.

Aside from TTC ive been in a similar situation to you and if you dont get it sorted it will end up destroying you as a couple, the only three people you want in this relationship is you two and a baby!!

 

[ablaze]

as said before, i too agree with wobbles hun

new year, new start xxx

 

[suzan]