I Need A Hug!

[ladymilly]

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[jo27]

 

[Rumpskin]

Dont worry about your age. I am 36 and still no babies!

 

[Tishimouse]

I agree that you shouldn't worry about your age ... I'm 46 in May and ttc#1. Age is just a number, as long as your biological clock is still saying "go", you shouldn't worry about it too much.

As for husbands/partners drinking every night, he needs to sort this out as it will not be condusive to a family. You have to be harsh (apologies if I sound so) and face reality. Not knowing how the situation is as it's difficult to read into posts, if it is really bad, then you have no choice but to imagine him getting up to feed or look after baby in the middle of the night. If he is drunk, then this could be a disaster.

I am so sorry you feel this way and do not mean to say anything hurtful I promise, but it sounds like you could do with a little outside help and advice. For now all I can do is send you a big and wish you the best.


PS: Perhaps I've read too much into your post and it's only a few drinks a night he is having. In which case you will be referring to the alcohol possibly affecting his sperm count. Could be.

 

[shadowsilk]

I wish you the best for trying for your first, miracles do happen, I'll pray for you.

 

[Mervs Mum]

 

[beckysharp]

I feel the same way as you. I'm 32 and been trying a year. Don't worry you'll get there. Don't let the blues get to you.

xx

 

[Suz]

Thank you everyone for all your kind words. I do feel better today. you are all the best

 

[Rumpskin]

Glad that you are feeling better lovely xx

 

[codiontour]

 

[shadowsilk]

No problem, chin up.

 

[Arcanegirl]

Suz
We will get there!

 

[justme00]

I'm sorry. If it helps, I'm pretty sure I am broken. I've been defective since birth though. hehe I've kind of givin' up hope that I will ever get pg but I still like to know I've tried all that I could. I'm sure you will get your BFP soon though! Just know you are not alone. *hugz*

 

[Suz]

Thank you Thank you

 

[Phexia]

 

[Tilly]

My mum tried for years with my brother then went on to have me! try to keep positive and hope you will get your BFP soon.

 

[genkigemini]

I have the TTC Blues Girls.....

TTCing since Julyish of 2006 and nothing... Not even one BFP..... I feel broken! OLD Worthless And now...It hits me...Im going to be 33 in April... All my friends I grew up with, I mean ALL have kids...Some have 3 and a 4th on the way and I dont have any.....I will be a great Mom...When will it be my turn...?

Hi. I am 28 and just about everyone I know is on child 1 AT LEAST even though I was the first one married 6.5 years ago. My husband is 36 so I really worry about having kids before it is too late for both of us! I will keep you in my prayers!!!! You are not alone and you are definitely not too old or broken!

Sarah