I need a hug

[Sarah345]

I'm sorry but I need to have a little cry on here. My AF has just come and I feel so sad. I was so so hopeful and it's broken my heart.

I can't complain as I have 2 gorgeous children already but we desperately want a third to feel complete. I had miscarriage in August and have been trying since then but no luck. It's so hard for me as I've always got pregnant first time. I've been pg 4 times but lost two. But every time I have fallen pregnant first time of trying. But this time round I keep getting BFN and I don't know why. It's always been so easy for us until now. I know 4 months of trying isn't long but it feels it and I'm 38 and just don't think number 3 will come. I'm so sad. I'm worried my last d&c in August has damaged me.

Sorry about the moan but I'm just having a cry. My hubby is away and I feel miserable.

Thanks girls.

 

[lunamoona]

Whatever our individual circumstances TTC can be a very emotional journey.

I'm sure 4 months will feel like an eternity if you've always conceived first try but it is still perfectly normal to take a few months. It took me three years for my first and a year and a half for my second, I had them at ages 41 and 43 so it can happen at the end of our fertile years.

Do you use OPK's or chart? As I've gotten older my ovulation has gotten later and later.

I am now 46 and am just going to try for number 3 myself, I have quite a few years on you but I'm still going to allow myself to hope as I know I'm still ovulating.

There's a few friendly ladies on the 'Nearly 44 final TTC journey' thread, why don't you pop over and join us, we are all there to support each other

 

[shannongmac]

 

[stefdan]

(hug)
There are lots of stories there... I hope these stories can make you feel better.

Also don't give up on trying, there still lots you can do to enhance the chances!!
Good luck with everything

 

[hellodarling]

Hugs mama...

 

[lisap2008]

 

[tcp]

Lots and lots of

 

[Berri]

Sorry Sarah. I can sympathise.... AF arrived for me yesterday and I'm really down, gutted actually. I had a chemical last month. I also have 2 already and we've been ntnp since my littlest was born (he's 2 in Feb). I wasn't sure I wanted a third but the disappointment I feel now tells me I do!!

Hopefully we will get our BFPs and our beautiful 3rd babies in 2016.

I think this sadness will pass but around to chat if you need!

 

[sweetcheeks78]

4 months can feel like a long time, but as others have said it's not really. I hope you get your BFP soon xx

 

[5Miracles]

Bighugs...yes...to all of you actually

 

[Olga1]

Many-many hugs!