Okay, so my current situation with the father of my child is that we were together for 2 months before I learned I was pregnant. In the two months that we were together he was nothing less then a controlling jerk. On the day that I found out I was pregnant we hung out. I didn't tell him the news because I was in shock myself. He picked me up and we went and got one of his friends. We pulled up to this other guys house and him and his friend started to load steel into a trailed on the back of his jeep. He had left his phone in the car and it started vibrating because he got a text. An unsaved number popped up with the text and I became suspicious because it was the same number from the day before that had texted him and he quickly deleted in text and denied it was his ex girlfriend (she had began sending me messaged via myspace saying he was still in love with her). So I read the text and it was 2 pages of her saying she loved him TOO and that she also wanted to try again. So in a rage I read all of his text messages and its him and her going back and forth talking about how they love each other and this and that. So in a daze of anger I got out of his jeep and began walking down the road. I was so hurt and devastated and pissed off that I didn't care where I was going or how I was getting there. He comes running up to me asking what is going on and I started screaming I seen the text messages and then I leaned over and smacked him with all my might. He automatically walked away and after calling my mom and crying I walked back to his jeep and asked him to bring me home. He agreed and him and his friend got back into the jeep. I sat there with tears falling down my face and I was trembling and sweating. He had this grin on his face and he blasted his music and just didn't pay me any mind. We dropped his friend off and on the way back to my house I told him the news. I wasn't sure if I would ever see him again so I just came out with it. At first he claimed I must of cheated on him and said he had paperwork saying that he wasn't able to conceive. After 20 minutes of him talking his smack to me he finally stopped what he was doing and just started saying "oh my God you are having my baby, I am so excited. bla bla blaaaa." Since then I have left him. We tried for a few weeks but I couldn't look at him the same after he had gone behind my back. It kills me though because now he tries and plays DADDY DEAREST! He acts like he didn't do anything wrong and this and that. He is constantly calling asking how I am and the baby and it just puts me in a fit of rage. He treated me like complete scum and cheated on me and now he wants to act like he cares. I want him in the baby's life and I would never stand in the way of him and our child seeing each other and spending time alone. I grew up with a dead beat dad and if he wants to be there for the baby I accept and support it. I just hate that he tries and act like he just cares SOOOOO much about me. I told him today to STOP calling/texting and that I'd update him when necessary. I know he has another girlfriend and it doesn't bother me but it will when it comes time to the baby being born. I will go CRAZY if he thinks he can walk into that hospital with some chick on his shoulder and see the baby. Or if he thinks he is going to take the baby for a few hours with the stupid girl trying to pretend she is a mother for a few hours! I WILL GO INSANE!!!!! I guess I just had to vent....anyone else have a similar situation they'd like to share?