I only have you ladies!

[Jess&Jay]

I feel so lonely. I'd have to admit y mother showed me a single partner is capable of doing things on their own BUT what she didnt tell me is that, THIS is why you should have your partner with you so you will never be lonely or feel down. I'm one to never take guys seriously, so I still to this day will not believe the words that come out of my ex's mouth about the baby or his "feelings" for me. We are still seperated, my choice. Because he will eventually flop back and forth or even cheat on me with his pathetic desperate baby momma #1. My family dont text or call me...not even a Facebook hello! My mother does things that are spiteful, like buying my little brother mcdonalds and not me anything, when there is nothing to eat in the house, *sigh*. And finding a job is harder than finding a needle in the hay stack! My grandmother, thank god, is coming around and is acting me how im feeling everyday and asking if im hungry to come over for dinner. She wants to kno what I'm having already haha. So far my cousins and aunt are having a total of 3boys and 3girls. I will be the tie breaker! Other than my grandma, Ladies of BnB, you are all I got! As obsessed as I am or even if I say something rude about a strong topic, you ladies are still here to hear me out and that's really all I need. Someone there for me when I want to talk about baby I love this site, and I recommend it everytime someone tells me they are prego or ttc, wtt etc. I love you girls! You bright up my day! Not to mention how addicting this forum is!!!

Thanks for hearing me vent!

 

[BlessedTwice]

Is your mom upset with you for getting pregnant? Why doesn't she have anything to do with you? I'm so sorry, But I'm here if you need to talk!

 

[welshmummy2be]

sorry to hear of your personal situations at home..my mam was a single mum to 3 of us and done a perfect job so it can be done (us women do not need a man to be happy is what she always told us) and i think she was right, fair play i love my OH to bits and he a good man but i know id be happy either way and i dont mean that in a horrid way...mainly tho i wanted to say thanks for your post, i agree with you 100% the ladies on here are fab no matter what you say they always respond, tell you the truth and give you advice...THIS SITE IS AMAING FOR BRINGING US GIRLS TOGETHER x x x all the best chick for the rest of your pregnancy x x x

 

[Sazaroo]

Always here to talk babies! Sorry for your situation, it must be really tough. But when you have your LO in your arms thats all your'll need

 

[Jess&Jay]

Is your mom upset with you for getting pregnant? Why doesn't she have anything to do with you? I'm so sorry, But I'm here if you need to talk!

She is mad that I'm pregnant. she is upset because she knows that daddy. She doesnt want anything to do with my baby. to me thats her being a bad mother. motherly instints say, help my child ! but she doesnt help at all. with nothingggg

 

[stephwiggy]

Hugs. Xxx.

 

[Alexp]

Oh Sweetheart my heart aches for you

I would go to the end of the earth for my children. Perhaps your mum will relent after your baby is born. If not your Grandma will be the next best thing. Sounds like she loves and cares for you.

You look very young on your pic, dont let that deter you . I was married at 17 when I had my first daughter. My ex husband was young & useless so I ended up bringing two children up alone to begin with. My eldest girl is an Intensive Care Nurse in Wales now and Im so proud of what she has achieved for herself. My greatest moment was at an exam when they asked her " Who do you admire the most " and she replied "My Mum". I was immature and thought life was a bed of roses but I matured into a good mum. Im proud of all my children as you will be.

Where abouts are you, can you meet with any Bump Buddies for chats or coffee at all. You could put in a request.

 

[Merry]

Sorry to hereyour lonely I haven't told my mum yet as worried how she will react, with her I can never tell. The love of you child will be worth all the stress/heartache etc

 

[Jess&Jay]

Oh Sweetheart my heart aches for you

I would go to the end of the earth for my children. Perhaps your mum will relent after your baby is born. If not your Grandma will be the next best thing. Sounds like she loves and cares for you.

You look very young on your pic, dont let that deter you . I was married at 17 when I had my first daughter. My ex husband was young & useless so I ended up bringing two children up alone to begin with. My eldest girl is an Intensive Care Nurse in Wales now and Im so proud of what she has achieved for herself. My greatest moment was at an exam when they asked her " Who do you admire the most " and she replied "My Mum". I was immature and thought life was a bed of roses but I matured into a good mum. Im proud of all my children as you will be.

Where abouts are you, can you meet with any Bump Buddies for chats or coffee at all. You could put in a request.

I am young I'll be 21 in Oct. Mom still sees me a 15! =/ and I like in the US. Not many bnb members in nyc, i assume. havent heard of any

 

[maddog37]

Hun you can talk to us whenever you need. I love your posts and you look so pretty in your pic! Sorry those around you are being unsupportive. I have to say it's a strangely lonely time, being pregnant! You sound like you have a very sweet grandma though.

 

[needafriend]

Awwww...that's so sad. If I was closer I would bring ya McDonalds. Chin up girl, u always have a shoulder here. Your family will come around and hopefully your "man" will man up and be a support for u and the baby!! Good luck.

 

[poppymist]

Hun this is what this site is for bringing all us lively ladies together to support each other in the good and bad times and well if you ever need any thing to talk etc I'm always here as well I'm proper obsessed with this site as well babes take care mwah x

 

[ayako]

Oh Sweetheart my heart aches for you

I would go to the end of the earth for my children. Perhaps your mum will relent after your baby is born. If not your Grandma will be the next best thing. Sounds like she loves and cares for you.

You look very young on your pic, dont let that deter you . I was married at 17 when I had my first daughter. My ex husband was young & useless so I ended up bringing two children up alone to begin with. My eldest girl is an Intensive Care Nurse in Wales now and Im so proud of what she has achieved for herself. My greatest moment was at an exam when they asked her " Who do you admire the most " and she replied "My Mum". I was immature and thought life was a bed of roses but I matured into a good mum. Im proud of all my children as you will be.

Where abouts are you, can you meet with any Bump Buddies for chats or coffee at all. You could put in a request.

I am young I'll be 21 in Oct. Mom still sees me a 15! =/ and I like in the US. Not many bnb members in nyc, i assume. havent heard of any

ahhh~ I'll be 21 in december! If you were here in Hawaii I would definitely hang out with you. Sucks you're on the other side of the world

But, if you ever want to talk to someone your age going through practically the exact same thing, I am here for you ^^

 

[happybeany]

I'm sorry you're having a rough time xx families are just difficult sometimes, I bet she'll come around! Your grandma sounds awesome though, you are lucky to have her I bet she can't wait to meet her new grandbaby xxxx

 

[Jess&Jay]

Thanks so much ladies!
Mom is planning a move soon, without me of course. I found out last night. UGH! but my bestfriend and her family are thinking about letting me move in with them in Florida, they just have to speak with Dad and make sure it's okay. Then i have to worry about getting a flight out there!! My bestfriend and her family are my 2nd family, as the mo, they are MY family(#1). It makes me sad when other moms disagree with my moms behavior and offer me help, cause this situation, i need MY mom, ya know? Oh well. She's never been the mother I deserved. *sigh* the story of my life =/

 

[Deutschette]

My heart goes out to you, sweetie. I'm 21 (22 next June) and if you need to talk to someone, I'm always here. We all are, in fact.

 

[mas]

IM sorry to hear ur mum is moving without u!! It must be so hard for u! I believe u r blessed to have found ur friends to pick u up and help out! its like what they say, you know who ur true friends are when u r in need of help and they rescue u!

I was only 21 too when I had my son, and it was very lonely and scary back then! Im 28 now and I look back and i still can remember those feelings! But it makes u such a strong person and the love u will have for ur child is overwhelmingly strong!

Just wanna remind u we r all here for u when u need a chat or to vent!

Hugzzz

mas

 

[pickles]

I wish there was something I could say or do to make things better for you. You can learn from your mum, you know what not to be like with your child.

Sending you big hugs xxx

 

[Chellepot]

Get a forum post on there girl!! "Calling all NYC mummies!" The only way you will find them is by shouting out that you are here and looking for them. I think its a great idea for you to get in touch with some local mums to be

I am sorry that your family can't or won't offer your the support you are looking for, have you looked into whether there are any support groups in your area? Perhaps there is a young mums group meeting near by and you just didn't know about it. It must be hard on your own but I admire your courage not taking back your partner, seems like you have your head screwed on and you know that you are worth more than that

If you ever need to chat PM me anytime

 

[BlessedTwice]

Thanks so much ladies!
Mom is planning a move soon, without me of course. I found out last night. UGH! but my bestfriend and her family are thinking about letting me move in with them in Florida, they just have to speak with Dad and make sure it's okay. Then i have to worry about getting a flight out there!! My bestfriend and her family are my 2nd family, as the mo, they are MY family(#1). It makes me sad when other moms disagree with my moms behavior and offer me help, cause this situation, i need MY mom, ya know? Oh well. She's never been the mother I deserved. *sigh* the story of my life =/

OMG! so sad, your mom moving and you not invited! WOW, seriously I will always stick by my kids no matter what! I am so sorry, you are old enough to make your own decisions now, she shouldn't be treating you like this. Hope everything works out for you