I Swear I Dunno What Im Going To Do..

[xKARENxBABYx]

on July 2nd FOB will be having aiden overnight i so don't want him to go what im i going to do i always put him to bed! im scared aiden's going to be upset. but two lawyers later im told if it went to court he would get overnights... im gutted. he dosen't even want aiden yesterday when i droped aiden off (he was up so shocked but then he only wanted his gift) gave him his fathersday gift he never even said thank you for and took aiden and shut the door in my face. Im fed up of it all

 

[AbbynChloe]

Overnights are really really hard, i am not going to lie. I remember Chloe's first over night without me i think I was calling and texting every few minutes.

Chloe came back happy to see me and relaxed. I think it's really important to make the handover as peaceful and relaxed as possible for you and Aiden. He will pick up on your stress and act accordingly.

Prepare yourself - big bar of chocolate, good movie - go out with friends a stiff drink and count down the minutes until Aiden is back - it will pass quicker then you know it.

Come online and we'll chit chat about silly things.

It will be ok xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Rhio92]

Do they really give overnights at that age? Shiiiiit.... That seems so wrong!

 

[JA1988]

on July 2nd FOB will be having aiden overnight i so don't want him to go what im i going to do i always put him to bed! im scared aiden's going to be upset. but two lawyers later im told if it went to court he would get overnights... im gutted. he dosen't even want aiden yesterday when i droped aiden off (he was up so shocked but then he only wanted his gift) gave him his fathersday gift he never even said thank you for and took aiden and shut the door in my face. Im fed up of it all

Awww hun that's awful, I would be beside myself if lo had to go for overnights that early as my lo is still bf and co-sleeping and there is no way my lo would manage overnight without me as he sleeps in my bed and won't take bottles! Sounds as though the lawyers bullied you into a corner as normally overnights don't start that early. Does he already have him unsupervised? Are you ff or bf? Fob is taking me to court over access but my solicitor has assured me that a court won't grant overnight access until the child is ready which could be 2 years old at least in my case, especially as he might still be bf.

Is fob good with aiden? xxx

 

[xKARENxBABYx]

hey. thanks for that AbbynChloe made me feel better

Tbh i don't know what goes on at FOB. though sometimes he dosen't get up but its like his mum gose awww "hes in the bathroom" when i guessing hes in his bed.. he gets him unsupervise 3days a week 10-5. we don't talk he takes aiden and the door gets shut in my face.. when i text they don't text back. i don't breastfeed when we went to medation (before lo was here) that was the one thing i had going for me i was going to breastfeed but when aiden was here he didnt latch on and the hospital bascially shoved a bottle at me. I thougt that too about the 2 but its not the case cause hes been there. but he hasn't really before he got 3days a week he was only seeing aiden 2hrs on a sunday because i took him there. i ended up shouting down the phone at him "get up off you're fat lazy arse and see you're son" and then after that i got a lawyers letter him wanting overnights and i said no. but now i have no choice and i understand he wants to see his son but if he really wanted to see him why stay in his bed or work eveyday hes ment to have him? though he wanted friday10 to sunday5 then the next week sat 10 to sun5. but i said he could only get sat 10 sun5 (every 2nd weekend) and every thursday. so worried but i dunno if they have accept that or not all i know is that its to star on 30th june so it would be that weekend. sorry this is long i better go im shaking/crying. but im just saying to myself im doing it for aiden. xx