I swear if I hear it one more time... (rant)

[Katies]

I'm so tired of people saying, Well if you don't get pregnant with another one it doesn't matter because you have your girls..
Don't get me wrong, I love my girls to death. But it does matter to me, I want one more kid before the age gap gets any bigger! my youngest just turned 5. This baby to be will also be our only kid together with my partner and I.

 

[Buffyx]

I'm sorry that happens! Although I am not in your situation, I can see how that would be frustrating to keep hearing!!

 

[WhiteOrchid24]

I swear probably the worst thing someone can say to a person suffering from Secondary Infertility is "Well at least you have so and so"!! It's like they think you don't appreciate what you have! I have heard it so many times and while I am extremely grateful for the fact I do have my DS it doesn't take away the pain, hurt and every other emotion you go through with SI. While infertility is a horrendous thing for anyone, SI has a whole other set of issues that you don't expect or anticipate.

I understand totally how you feel but unfortunately many others don't and most of the time it's their way of trying to make you feel better when it just makes you feel worse!

I hope you get that BFP soon

 

[Katies]

Thanks ladies, it's hard waiting for it to happen.

 

[Katies]

Seems like everyone around me has been and had a baby as well.. Including my ex husband who told me on the phone for the first time that his girl friend was going to be having a baby soon, I figure, okay a few months I can get the girls used to the idea. Then a week later they had a new baby brother.