I think I just need to vent.

[xkas]

This is my first time ever posting on a forum but I'm just so down about all of this. My husband and I have been ttc for over a year now.. we're both pretty stern on wanting to do it naturally (which is clearly not working like we thought..). I don't chart but I am thinking I need to find the want to do so.. maybe it will help? I do track by opk though.. we have a pretty active sex life resulting in sex about every day sometimes multiple times a day. We've tried Fertilaid which I had huge hopes for but turns out that wasn't the answer lol..

I was so sure that this month was our month and low and behold AF showed up a week early. At least this month it's extremely light, I don't even need a tampon or a pad for it.

I'm at that really discouraged point and it sucks. Heres to next month and hopefully getting there.

 

[cutestuff]

You are welcome to vent, but if you have already stopped bleeding and you never needed a tampon or pad and af was early, it could have been implantation bleeding. You should test just to make sure.....

 

[xkas]

You are welcome to vent, but if you have already stopped bleeding and you never needed a tampon or pad and af was early, it could have been implantation bleeding. You should test just to make sure.....

That's what I was originally thinking and hoping for, to be honest. I spoted 4dpo then at 7 dpo super light spotting which got heavier on 8/9 but it was still spotting then 10dpo it turned into a super super super light flow. Today it's still super light but it's brutal red (if that makes any sense?). I tested yesterday morning with the hope that it was implantation bleeding and it came back with a fast and easy negative. Which is a bummer.

 

[MrsHudson]

I'm sorry you're having difficulties. Some people don't get BFP's right away so I wouldn't loose complete hope.

Have you seen your doctor? Also you may want to start charting. It doesn't hurt that's for sure. Fertility Friend is a great app and Taking Charge of Your Fertility is a great book to get you started.