I think I may be a STM - *updated!*

[rubixcyoob.]

I think I may be a single teen mummy

Me and OH argued last night and it looked like we were on the verge of either splitting up for good or going on a break. However we apologised and we were hugging and laughing and talking and kissing in under an hour. He told me he didn't want a break because he didn't want to start something bad with us and I was genuinely so relieved.
Then as I was going to sleep he started thinking about all the stuff we were arguing over again and left he said he doesn't know if he can do this anymore and I'm to let him know when baby is on his way. I'm genuinely just sat on my bed crying since he went. There were no goodbyes, I don't know if I'm with him or he just needs space and it feels like my hearts been broken in two. For the first time I've genuinely loved someone and I don't want to anymore so I won't hurt

So OH wrote me a FB mail and then we talked on the phone a bit. I am not going to be a single mummy at all, you girls were right we're just having a little time apart to try and clear the air because there's no point in us being together and just making up when we can't really do what we need to in order to move on from the arguement since we are still together and everything is still raw. We are 100% still a couple still talking and stuff, just a little time for our own space is all we need.
Thanks for the support girls and making me feel better

 

[mum#1]

oh hun, i dont know what to say

maybe once LO arrives it will just all be forgotten and he wont want to ever leave your side

 

[Bride2Be]

I'm so sorry you're going through so much. As mum #1 says, he may be fine once the LO comes or he may just need space.

 

[divershona]

he's probably worrying himself about the baby arriving and things like that i needs some time to himself and stuff to figure it out better.

hope your ok amy,

 

[rubixcyoob.]

Thanks girls x
I don't know what's wrong or happening at all so I'm so confused as well :/
Is is sad I sat and looked out my window and checked my phone every 5 minutes for the last half hour to see if he'd came back or texted me?

 

[Jemma_x]

 

[Sophiiie]

It's not sad at all that you're doing those things, I'd be exactly the same
So sorry that you're feeling like this
Me & my OH have nearly called it quits a few times since I've been pregnant, not sure if it's the hormones or the stress or what, but I'm sure things will work themselves out for you xx

 

[divershona]

Thanks girls x
I don't know what's wrong or happening at all so I'm so confused as well :/
Is is sad I sat and looked out my window and checked my phone every 5 minutes for the last half hour to see if he'd came back or texted me?

no its not sad that you did that, i do it all the time

things will get better for you hun, 1 way or another x x

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

Owwww i hope you can both sort things out..
maybe it's just slightly emotions getting too high (from both people) and the fact that you have a bubba due any day now - and sometimes without knowing the stress can get a bit too much! always here if you want to chattt..
xxxx

 

[Youngling]

Its probably best to give him some space. Hes probably in abit of a panic, what with the baby about to come at any minute.
Im sure he will come around
xx

 

[Natasha2605]

Aw I'm sure he'll come round. Maybe he's getting nervous about the arrival of your little boy and it's causing arguments and stress? Hope your ok xx

 

[Miss_d]

i hope yous manage to sort it out x

 

[Jadelm]

I'm sure once LO is here he'll be fine, especially as he really seems to not want you guys to break up/go on a break. I agree with the others, it's probs just the stress and nerves and being all over the place emotionally, as well as you being all those things AND having to deal with the hormones on top of it. Hopefully things will work out for you hun, just give him a little space and time and he'll soon realise what an idiot he's being!

Oh and fyi I still check my phone to see if FOB has text and we broke up about 3 months ago.. so if you're being sad I must be utterly pathetic!!

xxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxx

 

[samface182]

amy, don't worry. just give him his space, he will come round. it will really be hitting him that he is going to be a dad anyday. he is probably just as stressed as you are wanting the baby out!

as soon as the baby is here, you will both forget that you even had the argument in the first place. everything will be fine

 

[lily123]

xxx

 

[Eabha'sMum]

hopefully it doesnt seem so dull today
xx

 

[rainbows_x]

Aww I'm glad you two talked it through and are a little better now.
Hope you're okay hun
x

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

Awww, i'm glad you two talked it through and managed to sort things - and once bubs is here, there will be time between the arguement and it probably won't even matter so much.. you'll be preoccupied!!
xxxx

 

[Natasha2605]

I'm glad everything's alright. It'll just take time xx

 

[newmommy23]

Glad you guys got things worked out