wantababybump
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I have had my cat for 8 years but around 3 years she lived with my mom because I couldnt take her with me until last year sometime. She has had several litters of kittens. I love her to bits and I feel so awful but she is peeing and pooping all over our apartment. It's mostly in one section over by my bookshelf but its everyday Im cleaning up cat poop. Lastnight she peed on shawns work bag and ruined his ties for work. I just feel awful. I have caught her a few times peeing on clothes, cds, anything that might be on the floor. She has peed in our playpen...seriously Im just so fed up with it. She hasnt been fixed only because I never had the money to do so (which is my fault because I should have come up with the money to do so but I was so young when I got her) but we are moving in less than a week and we cant have her do this in the new place. On one hand the vets might let us get her fixed even though she is 8 (a friend of ours did the same and her cat stopped-she was also old) but it may not fix the problem then we might have to get her put down anyways in which case we will be spending $300 instead of just the cost of putting her down. She still has spunk, she still plays and is so loving and affectionate but I just dont know if I can handle this any longer. Where she has had 4 or 5 litters of kittens I wonder if it has made her bladder and bowels bad or something and thats the reason she is doing it? I just dont know what to do and just thinking about it gets me upset but then I just dont want to get her fixed unless I know this will stop, I almost feel as if we get her put down it would just make things a bit easier. I dont want to give her away because I dont want her to go to a home where if she does this they may beat her, hurt her or throw her outdoors (she has always been an indoor cat) We dont get mad at her only because we very rarely catch her and dont want to punish her later when she wont know what she has done. We have 3 other cats and they are all very good with eachother but I really do believe even if she was the only cat here she would be doing the exact same thing. What would you do?