I think I'm losing my bond with my son

[MommaAlexis]

Yes exactly! Your story reminded me of that.

 

[BigZai]

Yes exactly! Your story reminded me of that.

Yea and in that story the fake mom had actually killed her own kid (by accident)

 

[Yorkshiredad]

Another update for you all.

We did the "exchange" today and managed to have a couple of minutes alone to talk things through.

She apologized for saying she wanted sole custody and that she said it out of anger (At what I have no idea).

We've both resolved to start afresh and be as civil with one another as possible for our son's sake.

Thank you all so so much for your kind words and your advice you have no idea how much it has helped me.

If anything changes I'll be sure to let you all know

 

[BigZai]

Another update for you all.

We did the "exchange" today and managed to have a couple of minutes alone to talk things through.

She apologized for saying she wanted sole custody and that she said it out of anger (At what I have no idea).

We've both resolved to start afresh and be as civil with one another as possible for our son's sake.

Thank you all so so much for your kind words and your advice you have no idea how much it has helped me.

If anything changes I'll be sure to let you all know

I would still talk to a lawyer

 

[Jinty]

If shes saying you can only have him once a month on weekends then you might as well go to court. Im pretty sure you would get more time than that? Thats horrible though! Im so disgusted i would never say to FOB that hes not allowed to see LO or he can only have her a certain amount of time. Even though he decides 2 hours a week is enough but i would never decide when he can and can't have her... Unfortunately if your both on the birth certificate you both have equal rights. Feel for you x

 

[xxxjessxxx]

I still think you should go to court as it could only be a matter of time before she acts out of place again. If you say you keep everything she texts and says that's good evidence. My dad when dealing with my little sisters mother, always had a voice recorder when he'd go and pick up my sister so if the mother said anything out of place ect then it was recorded. It helped him a lot in court x

 

[BigZai]

How are things? how is your LO?