Thanks for your replies everyone. The doctor has made me an appointment for an early scan next Tuesday. He hasn't done bloods but he did reassure me a little that it could just be one of those things.
The spotting has now gone a yellowy/brown although I'm still having small cramps. I feel like I'm just waiting for it all to come back red again. My cervix is still high but that happened with my last m/c too. I wish I knew a definate answer wether this baby has gone or not.
He did say that if I m/c then not to try again for 6 months to give my body a rest although I don't think I can wait that long. TTC has been the only thing keeping me going