I think we need a bad day sticky thread

[readyformore]

Yes...more than a few.

 

[Indigo77]

I don't like the testing threads either, but she bullied us into it....

 

[dachsundmom]

 

[readyformore]

It's self preservation for me.

Sorry, you won't see me there.

 

[Natsby]

I´ll go in, but to be honest I am sure it will be a no this month. I think I ov early and we missed it- Anyway DR on Friday so at least I can talk to someone and see if they can help us. I think I´m all out on PMA now, i used it all up last cycle. Now I´m sure I´ll never get another BFP and I´m too tired to cry about it.
Good grief someone shoot me now self pitying cow!!!!
We had a bad day, big car trouble with all our cars at the same time, Oh´s van seems to have died and mine didn´t pass it´s road test, then he broke the key to his car and they want tons of money to program a new one. We are spending more than the old wrecks are worth. But I did sell a sculpture at the wekend!! YAY! SO at least I can pay for my brakes. chin up ladies hugs all round.

 

[readyformore]

I´ll go in, but to be honest I am sure it will be a no this month. I think I ov early and we missed it- Anyway DR on Friday so at least I can talk to someone and see if they can help us. I think I´m all out on PMA now, i used it all up last cycle. Now I´m sure I´ll never get another BFP and I´m too tired to cry about it.
Good grief someone shoot me now self pitying cow!!!!
We had a bad day, big car trouble with all our cars at the same time, Oh´s van seems to have died and mine didn´t pass it´s road test, then he broke the key to his car and they want tons of money to program a new one. We are spending more than the old wrecks are worth. But I did sell a sculpture at the wekend!! YAY! SO at least I can pay for my brakes. chin up ladies hugs all round.

Oh Natsby.

Glad to hear about selling a sculpture, but dang!

 

[peacebaby]

hi ladies

thanks for this thread...was flaming RED MAD when I came here but reading some of your LOL posts have put some of the fires out but not quite all....grrrrr....who you ask? The in-laws the FIL to be precise....are you ready for it? Sorry for the long post but allow me to elaborate.

last year when we started TTC OH and i decided I should stay home, i wanted to be relaxed and we thought it was going to happen...well you know, like in the movies, right? Well, uh no, no no no. a year and an MC later and here we still are..DH understands this but the FIL in particular has got his boxer shorts in twist about me not working. Now I've tried explaining to him as best I could in a nice way that I was taking a break from work (didn't want to out our TTC efforts)but no he goes on about it, he has been emailing me to get a job immediately (3 emails in 5 hours) as if I need more stress ...I lost my cool and replied to him that DH has a duty to provide for me....today he emails me back saying that this is "absurd" and that in this country (i'm from south africa, where women do actually have all the choices and freedoms we have here) couples ARE EXPECTED to both work and that other women would find "sitting at home boring" GRRRRRRR!!!!:
he then said all I have to take care of is a small flat while 95% of women "in this country" do all that and still work full time. is that just unbelievably patronising and maddening or is it just my OV hormones?

Gimme that taser...and I'll take that baseball bat too...arghhh and it had to be this OV week.Oh the rage..help!

rant over, crime to be committed.

 

[Indigo77]

It's none of his phucking business.
No, you are right to be mad.
Your hubby should step in at this point, though.

 

[dachsundmom]

^^^WSS

 

[Desperado167]

Peacebaby,grrrrr ,sounds like my hubby ATM ,tell me wen u are heading over to your fil and I will come with you Hope u are feeling better today ,

 

[Natsby]

Peacebaby, sorry to hear your FIL is giving you a hard time, I think a little lie is in order. Invent a disgusting medical complaint, I´m thinking overactive bowel sounds good, then give him gory details of why you can´t work, go on about it for a long time. This should serve to make him feel bad and shut him up for fear of hearing it all again.
Failing that tell him you work from home writing for a website (nearly true lol) I hope this month is your and that you BFP will shut him up.

 

[Jax41]

I´ll go in, but to be honest I am sure it will be a no this month. I think I ov early and we missed it- Anyway DR on Friday so at least I can talk to someone and see if they can help us. I think I´m all out on PMA now, i used it all up last cycle. Now I´m sure I´ll never get another BFP and I´m too tired to cry about it.
Good grief someone shoot me now self pitying cow!!!!
We had a bad day, big car trouble with all our cars at the same time, Oh´s van seems to have died and mine didn´t pass it´s road test, then he broke the key to his car and they want tons of money to program a new one. We are spending more than the old wrecks are worth. But I did sell a sculpture at the wekend!! YAY! SO at least I can pay for my brakes. chin up ladies hugs all round.

Natsby right with you on the lost PMA mine has dunna bunk too. I'm closing my aim!!!!

Bad news about the cars, but well done for selling your sculputre!!! Always the way though innit, get money in one hand for it go out in the other. Triple Bums!!! Take care xXx

 

[Jax41]

Peacebaby blimey can't believe your FIL is casting such an opinion, I agree with Indigo, it's none of his business! Think Natsby's idea is really good

Seriously though, can't your DH just tell him to butt out?

Big hugs hun xXx

 

[peacebaby]

Thanks every one!

Despie, sorry to hear to hear you're having similiar issues, hope it gets better for you. And yes, i'd take you along to knock down the doors but FIL lives in another country for most of the year, yet still manages to interfere.

Natsby, thanks i laughed hard at your idea, brilliant We actually did consider lying to him and now that seems like an idea whose time has come.
DH has been trying to defend me but FIL is sometimes so overbearing that i think the pressure from FIL also gets to DH and he feels somewhat torn. He has said he will email FIL and tell him its out of order. I just want FIL to leave me alone, he's been so critical of me and thinks all women can only feel worthy if we're slaving away and earning £££, like having children and a good quality home life is worthless. As of now, i'm going to ignore him. In the past i made a real effort, inviting him for lunch,being really nice etc when he's in the UK, well no more of that!

Thanks for hearing me out ladies. Less anger today but not quite calm and peaceful yet, will get there!

 

[peacebaby]

Hey girls we must've been doing pretty well, I've had to scroll to p7 of threads to find this!! but today, I'm having a BAD day....

Last cycle only one BD, this cycle shaping up for another one BDer, it's my 'good' week this week and I've been told 'I've got a busy week at work, long hours, need to sleep, you can have it at the weekend'. We have fallen out big style. What is the point of asking him to do an SA when he won't even BD with me at the right time, no point whatsoever.... I'm going to sulk, cry and have a mega hissy fit, stand clear here I go.....



God I feel shitty!!!!!!!!!!!

hope you feeling better Jax. Don't know if this will help but if your OH is saying it's the long hours and tiredness, perhaps you could try to give him some natural supplements to boost the libido during your good week...like ashawaghnda powder and macca powder, double doses in the days leading to OV usually do the trick and you can tell him that it will give him more energy for his long working hours.it works a treat I tell you !

 

[Desperado167]

Peace baby ,I like the advice u gave to jax ,that's wot I did with my oh ,I put him on the macca and horny goats weed ,def helps ,Glad u are just getting on with things and hope u feel at peace soon ,much love despie ,

 

[Jax41]

Hey girls we must've been doing pretty well, I've had to scroll to p7 of threads to find this!! but today, I'm having a BAD day....

Last cycle only one BD, this cycle shaping up for another one BDer, it's my 'good' week this week and I've been told 'I've got a busy week at work, long hours, need to sleep, you can have it at the weekend'. We have fallen out big style. What is the point of asking him to do an SA when he won't even BD with me at the right time, no point whatsoever.... I'm going to sulk, cry and have a mega hissy fit, stand clear here I go.....



God I feel shitty!!!!!!!!!!!

hope you feeling better Jax. Don't know if this will help but if your OH is saying it's the long hours and tiredness, perhaps you could try to give him some natural supplements to boost the libido during your good week...like ashawaghnda powder and macca powder, double doses in the days leading to OV usually do the trick and you can tell him that it will give him more energy for his long working hours.it works a treat I tell you !

Thanks Peacebaby (and Despie!), I think it'd be a good idea too esp if I tell him it'll help how he generally feels . He's making a stupendous effort at the moment to lose some weight and kick the 'have a pint/glass of wine a day' habit, but not for TTC purposes of course, don't care, it'll all help if he ever plays ball with me at the right time!!!

I'm feeling a lot better than I did the other day thank you. I've accepted that this cycle is not going to get me my BFP (and trying not to stress about the wasted opportunity) but that I WILL talk to my DH properly, I have nothing whatsoever to lose as it can't get any worse than it is, and then next cycle who knows

Anyways, not sure if any of you read your 'stars' but this was mine from one of the Sunday Newspaper supplement magazines for the week ahead and it's spooky!!!

"Scorpio - Some problems eventually go away of their own accord, but the planets suggest that the problem you are currently wrestling with needs to be dealt with immediately or it will continue to annoy you for weeks to come. You can ignore it if you like, but it won't ignore you"

BANG ON!!!!!!

 

[Desperado167]

Ong jax ,that is creepy ,Seriously but my dh is almost 47 and the macca really helped with energy and stamina ,I think the first month on it he managed nine days in a row and I just told him I got it for him from the health shop as he was feeling run down .after we used it I told him he was bigger and harder down below and he started taking it himself instead of me having to give him it ,ATM anythings worth a go Hun,good luck ,

 

[Jax41]

Ong jax ,that is creepy ,Seriously but my dh is almost 47 and the macca really helped with energy and stamina ,I think the first month on it he managed nine days in a row and I just told him I got it for him from the health shop as he was feeling run down .after we used it I told him he was bigger and harder down below and he started taking it himself instead of me having to give him it ,ATM anythings worth a go Hun,good luck ,

Despie.....I love your style!!! Thanks for the top tip, I'm going to try him on it, I could live to regret this.....nine days in a row xXx

 

[Desperado167]

Ong jax ,that is creepy ,Seriously but my dh is almost 47 and the macca really helped with energy and stamina ,I think the first month on it he managed nine days in a row and I just told him I got it for him from the health shop as he was feeling run down .after we used it I told him he was bigger and harder down below and he started taking it himself instead of me having to give him it ,ATM anythings worth a go Hun,good luck ,

Despie.....I love your style!!! Thanks for the top tip, I'm going to try him on it, I could live to regret this.....nine days in a row xXx

Just lie back and think of England