I want to go to sleep for several weeks and wake up in 2nd tri

[heaveneats]

I'm sure i'm not alone on this but does anyone else feel like they just can't wait for first tri to be over? It's been really rough for me and i can't wait to be in 2nd tri. I've gone through buckets, my stress levels and anxiety has been to the point that i make myself sick over it from lines not getting darker (or what i thought, in the end i was just crazy) to me having some slight spotting, to which of course i've assumed the worst. i've got a scan coming up on wednesday, and i'm dreading it, i'm so worried they will give me bad news since i had no spotting with DD.

is anyone else feeling this crazy

 

[Maidenet]

Me. I hate first tri. So much stress. No sickness too much sickness. My boobs don't hurt. My boobs kill. Omg my discharge isn't normal. Had spotting. No spotting. Put behind on a scan... It goes on.

Pregnancy is not beautiful it is scary. Xx

 

[heaveneats]

Me. I hate first tri. So much stress. No sickness too much sickness. My boobs don't hurt. My boobs kill. Omg my discharge isn't normal. Had spotting. No spotting. Put behind on a scan... It goes on.

Pregnancy is not beautiful it is scary. Xx

same! my boobs hurt then dont , oh my gosh something must be wrong, oh i dont feel as sick today oh my gosh something is wrong. It is just brutal, i'm not having any more kids because of it

 

[Whiteandblack]

I'm sorry you're feeling such intense anxiety and stress

I understand what you're feeling. Although, I am happy to be this much farther into my pregnancy than I was last week, and the week before that, etc. I have my first prenatal appt next Tuesday and I just want it to be over so I know everything's okay.

First trimester is so difficult for so many different reasons. Physically not feeling well is just the tip of the iceberg I think. Couple that with the anxiety of not knowing "for sure" if everything is progressing normally, fuel that with hormonal insanity...it's a recipe for feeling pretty miserable.

What's helped me a lot is thinking about how if something were to go wrong, it's out of my hands. And chances are everything will be fine. I also like to visualize myself in the second/third trimester looking back and wishing that I had spent less time worrying and more time being mindful/enjoying finally being pregnant!

It's the hardest thing, but try and relax. Your body and baby and future self will thank you.


Hope this helps

 

[Maidenet]

Thing that helps me is if something was wrong you'd more than likely know than not xx