In that case its awful and so many other cases where women do it out of spite. But it depends on the situation such as violence. I've currently stopped access, his never lived with lily(we split when pregnant) & I stopped access at my house because of the mental abuse and I worry about Lily's safety, so we're sorting out supervised access atm. Now his family etc will make me out to be a horrible person thats kept him from his daughter. Which isn't the case, I've tried many times... its just very hard with someone like him, It's a long story.. but yeh depends on the case.