This might be kind of long, so bare with me please. I'm not sure what to do about this.
About two months ago I was casually seeing a boy named Bryan. I have known him for a few years now and we were good friends. Ever since I met the boy I've had a huge crush on him, so when he told me he liked me I thought I was in love. (Stupid, I know) We were both very drunk one night and had unprotected sex. Shortly after we stopped seeing each other. (He was still in love with his ex, drama I didn't want to deal with) After a little awkward phase we're once again back on good terms. Maybe not as great as before but we work together and talk like normal.
I was worried that I might be pregnant since the sex was unprotected but I go my period shortly after which erased all fear in my mind. Still, I was heartbroken and really spiteful so I had a rebound hookup with a guy I dated a while ago named Ian. Ian wore a condom the whole time though.
Now I am 5 days late for my period and I'm afraid I might be pregnant. I looked online and it says on many websites that it's not impossible to have a period early on in a pregnancy. So I guess that doesn't rule Bryan out as the father?
If I am pregnant I feel like I can't go to both boys and said "you might be" because I'm sure the both of them have reasonable doubt and want nothing to do with a baby they're probably sure isn't theirs. I don't want it to be Ian's. He is a douchebag and I would hate to be stuck with him for the rest of my life, assuming he sticks around because knowing him he might not. I know Bryan would try his best to stick around, also he lives in the same town as me where as Ian live 4 hours away.
I know who I would want the father to be, but I'm not sure it's morally right to tell Bryan he is the father if I'm unsure. I also realize that my period might just be super late for no reason, but it's still interesting to see different opinions on what I should do.
About two months ago I was casually seeing a boy named Bryan. I have known him for a few years now and we were good friends. Ever since I met the boy I've had a huge crush on him, so when he told me he liked me I thought I was in love. (Stupid, I know) We were both very drunk one night and had unprotected sex. Shortly after we stopped seeing each other. (He was still in love with his ex, drama I didn't want to deal with) After a little awkward phase we're once again back on good terms. Maybe not as great as before but we work together and talk like normal.
I was worried that I might be pregnant since the sex was unprotected but I go my period shortly after which erased all fear in my mind. Still, I was heartbroken and really spiteful so I had a rebound hookup with a guy I dated a while ago named Ian. Ian wore a condom the whole time though.
Now I am 5 days late for my period and I'm afraid I might be pregnant. I looked online and it says on many websites that it's not impossible to have a period early on in a pregnancy. So I guess that doesn't rule Bryan out as the father?
If I am pregnant I feel like I can't go to both boys and said "you might be" because I'm sure the both of them have reasonable doubt and want nothing to do with a baby they're probably sure isn't theirs. I don't want it to be Ian's. He is a douchebag and I would hate to be stuck with him for the rest of my life, assuming he sticks around because knowing him he might not. I know Bryan would try his best to stick around, also he lives in the same town as me where as Ian live 4 hours away.
I know who I would want the father to be, but I'm not sure it's morally right to tell Bryan he is the father if I'm unsure. I also realize that my period might just be super late for no reason, but it's still interesting to see different opinions on what I should do.
