NorthStar
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OK so I'm on holiday and I've watched a bit of daytime tv, and found myself quite moved by a documentary I watched (why do I torture myself I would never normally watch this kind of stuff?).
So, if it wasn't 4 years + of form filling, home studies, intrusive questioning and no guarantee of a baby at the end of it....would you adopt?
I think we'd still want to at least TRY for a birth child, but also think adoption is a valid way of making a family too.
But having watched the show where this couple really got put through the mill for YEARS (and it seemed like standard practice in the UK!) I was left with the impression that IVF and even using donor eggs is less problematic from a legal point of view.
So, if it wasn't 4 years + of form filling, home studies, intrusive questioning and no guarantee of a baby at the end of it....would you adopt?
I think we'd still want to at least TRY for a birth child, but also think adoption is a valid way of making a family too.
But having watched the show where this couple really got put through the mill for YEARS (and it seemed like standard practice in the UK!) I was left with the impression that IVF and even using donor eggs is less problematic from a legal point of view.