If you weren't an addict before, you will be now! Best tweaking&testing thread ever!

[LeahLou]

I always see something on my tests! I know I'm crazy but here it is cd32 pm blue dye

Finally reached my cervix and it's super soft but closed tight. I just don't get it. The only thing that's telling me I'm not pregnant are the tests! Maybe it's a late implanter? Idk anymore! So frustrated!

 

[MeaganMackenz]

I kinda see something on the bottom half of that test- not sure on the top lol.


Okay, Im going to admit it. I have no idea what to do / feel for to check cervix ??! I know it's a TMI thing but hell if I can't ask u lovelies who can I?!
I've reached up, to check for CM and felt something hard way up. Is that it? If it is what's the evolution of it? High low hard soft ? Help lol

 

[Jalanis22]

I honestly dont even know where the cervix is lmao i have never checked for it or anything...im too scared

 

[LeahLou]

It's like a rubber band type thing between the vagina and uterus. It's what dialates or gets effaced when you're in labor! It changes throughout your cycle. During and after AF it's low (reachable) hard and open. During O it's high, soft and open. When you're gearing up for AF it's starts getting lower, hard and open! But when pregnant, it's near unreachable, soft but firmly closed.
You can usually confirm O when you check your cm AND cervix position

 

[Jalanis22]

It's like a rubber band type thing between the vagina and uterus. It's what dialates or gets effaced when you're in labor! It changes throughout your cycle. During and after AF it's low (reachable) hard and open. During O it's high, soft and open. When you're gearing up for AF it's starts getting lower, hard and open! But when pregnant, it's near unreachable, soft but firmly closed.
You can usually confirm O when you check your cm AND cervix position

Wow your an expert ive never bothered to do that...i really didnt know the differences between ovulating and what not on cervix..now i know...so when are you going to the dr to get checked?

 

[MeaganMackenz]

Hmmm! Well I'll be looking into that next cycle if this isn't the one !

 

[LeahLou]

You can check your cervix now too!

I research A LOT

I think I'll wait another few days at least to see if my cycle is still just trying to sort itself out from the d&e then the cp in November.

 

[MeaganMackenz]

I could check now but the whole open closed hard soft thing eludes me. I've felt said cervix and the only thing I got is high vs low .. So I'm such an amateur haha

 

[LeahLou]

Well you gotta start from somewhere! It still confuses me every now and then too.

 

[Jalanis22]

Jaja....well hopefully you get your bfp soon Leah...its frustrating especially on you past your AF already..im barely on cycle day #4...when should i start using OPKs? Ive never used em constant to see if im ovulating so im new to this

 

[LeahLou]

I started out follow the SMEP plan! (Sperm meets egg plan) it says to start opks at cd10 once a day then double up starting cd14 till you get a +.

 

[Jalanis22]

I started out follow the SMEP plan! (Sperm meets egg plan) it says to start opks at cd10 once a day then double up starting cd14 till you get a +.

Thanks Leah ill be looking into that...sadly DH left to work already so i wont be seeing him til the following week which means im gon a be with him the whole week of fertilizatiom and O day...ill make sure to have lots of

 

[Mummy23beauts]

So levels came back as 15, is that not too low? And also she said not to rely on these tests as the rarely show progression. This pic is of the same test at 3min (top) to 5min (bottom)

 

[MeaganMackenz]

Well I had a small amount I hope for an early bfp since my boobs starting aching but of course...

Bfn. 8dpo - let the daily testing begin

 

[Jalanis22]

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So levels came back as 15, is that not too low? And also she said not to rely on these tests as the rarely show progression. This pic is of the same test at 3min (top) to 5min (bottom)

I see it on bottom good luck hun

 

[LeahLou]

You ARE pregnant Marie!!! 15 isn't bad for being early. When is/was AF due??

I see a little something Meagan! Hang on!

CD 33 and I'm still testing! No AF! Crampy as mess this morning, high cervix, lots of cm. DH and I are at a much much better place than over the weekend and his mom has said she will be moving out if she does loose her job, so that gives me hope.

 

[MeaganMackenz]

You ARE pregnant Marie!!! 15 isn't bad for being early. When is/was AF due??

I see a little something Meagan! Hang on!

CD 33 and I'm still testing! No AF! Crampy as mess this morning, high cervix, lots of cm. DH and I are at a much much better place than over the weekend and his mom has said she will be moving out if she does loose her job, so that gives me hope.

Haha! You would think that sounds awful kinda hoping the MIL loses her job so she has to move out but I TOTALLY understand!!!

I wasnt expecting to see anything, I dont see anything and wont put much weight into the tests until 10dpoish.

You have some mad line eye lovely, thats totally negative

 

[LeahLou]

Last FRER for now! FMU.

 

[MeaganMackenz]

I think I see what youre seeing in the one with the dot.. wish it was darker for you!!

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Thankyou Leah Im sooo scared! Af was either due today or the 11th.