If you weren't an addict before, you will be now! Best tweaking&testing thread ever!

[free_spirtd]

Sorry Jackie!! Chocolate and a good movie? Treat yourself to something indulgent

 

[LeahLou]

I think I'm done testing. Got a bfn tonight and I'm just over it. I feel so negative tonight if AF is due tomorrow or the next day, I should've had something show up on a test by now. Just gonna wait it out y'all! I don't know what we could do better this next cycle. We bd'ed almost everyday with preseed and vitamins. How could we have missed it?!

 

[Jalanis22]

Its alright i should call it a movie night...im ok with it because after the positive opk we BD the next day only and then a couple days after...we tried alot the week and days i was suppose to.ovulate but i ended up ovulating when i wasnt with DH...maybe nxt month will b our month Leah...now i.have.OPKs but dont.know when to start using them though

 

[LeahLou]

I just don't get it! What did we do wrong? Blehh. I'm so out of it tonight. M y heart is sinking. AF isn't here yet and I have 1-3 more days so there's time. I'm praying for positivity in my heart, mind, and tests

 

[Jalanis22]

Aww Leah....i feel a bit down...i just feel like if this time its going to b harder to.conceive...but at least i know where my cycle is at now and well theres always nxt month

 

[LeahLou]

Too true! Thanks girl

 

[Jalanis22]

Too true! Thanks girl

No problem blahh im crampy i hate it...now im just wondering why i spot? Hmmm weird

 

[slg76]

hang in there Leah
You didn't do anything wrong. You can't conceive every cycle even if you timing is great. Not every egg is destined to become a baby You still have time. Plenty of people don't get a bfp until AF is due. Sorry you are feeling down tonight. Take a deep breath and give your little girl a squeeze.

 

[LeahLou]

Thanks Sara. I typically am better at this! Sorry for my negative nancy attitude y'all! It'll be a full year since the miscarriages started in a couple weeks and I think that's hitting me like a ton of bricks. I really hoped I'd be pregnant by now with a sticky baby. But it's just not time yet. I just need to relax about it!

Still can't decide with this next cycle whether to temp and opk. I know hubby doesn't want a holiday baby, so we'll stop trying in March and April.

 

[Petzy]

FX for you Leah and big hugs xoxo

 

[slg76]

no need to apologize, Leah. I just don't want you blaming yourself for something that's not your fault. How are you feeling today?

I'm working on taking better care of myself. I made an appointment for a facial next week and I just made an appointment with my acupuncturist for monday. I'm excited to see her. I really like her and I think the treatments help a lot. I'm going to talk to her about putting together some herbs for me too.

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Bfn on frer this am and pm... I know I'm out... Don't be disheartened yet Leah, I'm sorry Jackie onwards and upwards I'll joining my testing twinny again soon x

 

[Jalanis22]

Bfn on frer this am and pm... I know I'm out... Don't be disheartened yet Leah, I'm sorry Jackie onwards and upwards I'll joining my testing twinny again soon x

Thankss...im all crampy ugh hate this feeling,..how many dpo r u?

 

[saule]

Leah, we all understand how you feel. but sometimes it just doesn't happen. after two years of BFN i know how frustrating ttc is. so hold on there

my tests from today 13dpt/dpo
1 test fmu i thought i saw smth (hallucinating as always )
2 test pm no hold BFN

FX'd for all of you girls

 

[Mummy23beauts]

According to cm I ov'd between the 26th and the 30th but I have ewcm on the 24th so I don't have a clue, can anyone work it out for me please? X

 

[Mummy23beauts]

Leah, we all understand how you feel. but sometimes it just doesn't happen. after two years of BFN i know how frustrating ttc is. so hold on there

my tests from today 13dpt/dpo
1 test fmu i thought i saw smth (hallucinating as always )
2 test pm no hold BFN

FX'd for all of you girls

Your tests look bfp to me hunni xx

 

[katiecakes]

Leah- hang in there
pulling for you!!

 

[slg76]

did you test today, Leah?

 

[LeahLou]

Y'all are the best thanks for all the positive words! Anthony (DH) says I need to stop focusing on all we've lost and think about what to look forward to. He can be harsh sometimes, but he speaks truth! And he's a great hugger/snuggler even when he doesn't understand my feelings.

Glad you're taking care of yourself Sara! I don't think I could handle all those needles around me! What do you do with the herbs? I've heard about the supplement called royal jelly and it's supposed to help the quality of the egg. I think I'll try it if AF comes!

I did NOT test this morning! So proud of myself haha. Especially since AF is due today. I think Id rather see if I'm late then check again. I almost wonder if I didn't O this month.

Saule- those look bfp to me!! I'll tweak it

Did you have ewcm the whole time the 26-30? If so I'd go by that Marie!

 

[Mummy23beauts]

I had ewcm between 24th and the 27th, what dpo would that make me?
Leah it's a good thing that af hasn't shown up yet xx