Im At Home HeartBroken x

[chella]

Hi

So sorry for ur sad news, im kind of going through the same i had my internal today, and was told theres a baby but the heartbeat is weak and slow? So i go back tues for another scan and more heartache. My thoughts are with u xx

 

[kitten x]

Hi I have just read your post and had to reply im so sorry to hear what your going through and everything your saying is just like me now i found that i had a blighted ovum at my 10 week scan and ended up having a d&c 2 weeks ago its incredibly hard.But like you my OH has been my rock,im still finding it hard i dont even know what day it is and feel like im wondering round lost in my own world i feel heartbroken and i ache to hold our much wanted baby but we made the decision that once my bleeding had stopped to try again straight away even before my next period.I feel that i need a focus and want a purpose where as at the moment i feel like im just floating along i wake up and hope i make it through the day.
Each day does get easier i have made the choice to take some time off work and go away for a few days so am going away in 2 weeks time and hoping to come back with a new focus and just to be away and focus on me and my husband.
Like i said each day will get a bit easier but focus on you and your OH and resting up make time for you and for the 2 off you to be a couple and to grieve for your much wanted baby.If you want to chat feel free to message me.Am sending you lots of oh and lots off choccies help a little tiny bit too

hi babybuffy84 xxx

ive just seen ur message and thanks for your reply x im so sorry to hear your going thru the same yes it is heartbreakin and i feel very low and i feel empty my partner and i planned this baby and were over the moon now its gone im gutted my days to feel very long and time goes so slow i dont like feelin so down but i just carnt believe this has really happened to me i told myself in the hospital after my internal my hcg levels would of def gone up i convinced myself so much than when the dr told me i actually felt my heartbreak i will never forget my lil bean i was 6weeks on the sunday the same day i got told my pregnancy was failing, when you say d&c what does this mean sorry im getting used to all the meanings x

my fella has been fantastic i no hes hurting but keeping strong for me he makes me laugh and hes feeding me coz if it was left to me i wouldnt eat, he brought me a big bar of galaxy for my bath and that is going down rather quick , xx definatly a must have xx

I was at my drs tues for my painkillers he was lovely he told me to wait 2periods so my lining would be nice and thick for baby to attach whereas nurse at hospital said i can try after 1period what do you think???

my partner has said he wants try again as this baby ment so much he was so excited and its hurt him to hes not rushing me hes said when ever im ready hes here at the mohes running rnd like a blue arse fly doin everything xx

yes it would be lovely to chat to you and keep in touch talk to each other about advise and hopefully we will both get what we deserve this year i def like to chat so that wud be lovely i hope hear from you soon xxx

heres lots of hugs for you to xxxxxxxx

 

[kitten x]

Hi

So sorry for ur sad news, im kind of going through the same i had my internal today, and was told theres a baby but the heartbeat is weak and slow? So i go back tues for another scan and more heartache. My thoughts are with u xx

hi chella xxx

thank u for ur message x
Im so so sorry to hear what your going through i really am its heartbreaking for me to hear other ladies going through this it really is i hope tues everything is ok i will be thinking of you pls let me no take care hope to hear from you soon heres some hugs use them wen you need them xxx
xxxxx

 

[Razcox]

Thanks for the kitten, it turns out i needed them on Wednesday as thats when the bleeding started - Do you think the dr's ever get fed up of being right?

We too have decided to start TTC right away as its given my mind something else to focus on. Also because it was an early MC that happened naturally i am hoping it won't take my body long to get back to normal . . .

This forum really is a great place for support and i am so glad i found it. As awful as the last week has been, its been amazing to get the messages of understanding on here.

 

[broodylocket]

aw babe im sorry, *hugs*

 

[chella]

Hi Kitten

Thank u so much for ur msg and hugs , i really did need them, On tuesday babys heratbeat had stopped so had to go through all the options, etc , had my tablet there and then and then today i went into to say goodbye to my lil one it was so horrible and painful thing to go through but i just couldnt be put to sleep as i dont like the after effect of it! I know it was only 8 weeks old but it still was inside me and i just feel this deep lost now and still dreading going back to work aswell' Also dreading seeing friends who were expecting near or around the same time as me right now just hope that eases !!

When i joined this forum, i knd of feel im not alone xx

 

[kitten x]

Hi Kitten

Thank u so much for ur msg and hugs , i really did need them, On tuesday babys heratbeat had stopped so had to go through all the options, etc , had my tablet there and then and then today i went into to say goodbye to my lil one it was so horrible and painful thing to go through but i just couldnt be put to sleep as i dont like the after effect of it! I know it was only 8 weeks old but it still was inside me and i just feel this deep lost now and still dreading going back to work aswell' Also dreading seeing friends who were expecting near or around the same time as me right now just hope that eases !!

When i joined this forum, i knd of feel im not alone xx

Hi chella x

so glad my hugs came in handy, im so sorry to hear ur news ive just seen ur message as i didnt fink ppl were still replying to my message x i hope your ok thats proberly the most stupid question ever x i do no exactly how ur feelin i really do, bless u i really am sorry for what you have gone thru x im always here and love chattin xx im gona pm u now xx spk soon x love lianne xx

 

[Staceyxxx]

Sorry for your loss xxxx