Ok, I'm catholic and my kids from my prior relationship are also baptized catholic. My SO and I recently had a baby and he's peotestant from Northern Ireland. Naturally, I want our LO baptized catholic. I have no problem attending church with his family on occasion, but for baptism, that's not what I want. His family have been very unsupportive and have essentially convinced him to try to talk me into baptizing LO Lutheran. They've said things like he gives in too easily to me (on this deduction), and they're not going to have a catholic in the family, they're even trying to convert my other two children. Am I in the wrong here, wanting our baby to be catholic as well? And my SO "just wants to avoid the headaches" that is his reasoning for wanting to give into his parents and baptize our child Lutheran. Just looking for any advice.