i'm in so much pain

[halas]

well im just about in tears my spd is really bad today its clicking and i can hardly move walking is turture and feels like im snappng my pelvis or somthing and i can hardly look after my lo because shes nearly walking my oh isnt working but he just has to go for out for a while he dosnnt get the point of how much pain im in hes acting like its some big joke and its funny i cant even get him to look after his own daughter bc its seems hes such a shitty dad latly and tv seems to be more important and when hes looking after her its pointless bc im telling him every little thing and wen i ask him to do anything with her he rolls his eyes like its to hard hes so lazy i cant take this anymore it feels like it wud be eisier without him gabriellles 10 months old and i havnt even been away for her for more than an hour yet i feel like the only support i get is from my mum i am just sick of his shit

 

[kelly2903]

hugs hun xxxxx

 

[halas]

thankyou. just having a hard day with it all and now i have been named wombat because its making me waalk funny, i just terrified that it will be like this all the way through and get worst

 

[kelly2903]

oh hun you will be ok so what if you walk funny you have an excuse good i used to woddle about looked totally stupid cause im tiny an had a huge belly every one was like you look abnormal well normal from the back then you turn round and its like you swollowed a football hehehhe tell them to piss off and dont worry about it.... abviously you cant not worry about the spd but you can think well i have a reason for it though it might be horrid it willbe ok when bubz is here hope you feel better hun xxxx

 

[Katherine]

 

[RinnaRoo]

How crappy :[

 

[Beadette]

Hugs xxx

 

[mumof7]

awww you poor thing i had spd with 6 out of the 7 children and it really hurts with my last one i had it from about 16 weeks and unfortuntely yes it does get worse with my last one to it took ages to go the mw said it was cos i had so many kids but i think it was at least 8 weeks after the birth i now feel that familiar feeling its about to return getting aches down there

what maybe of help is trying a support belt u have the regular standard issue as i call them one elsticated belt i had got given by physio last time yes a monstrosity but one that had 3 velcro strap things it sits round your hips and underneath the baby bump very unslightly but helped a bit i no its hard but try to keep resting as much as your can xx

annex