Immature OH

[Laura--x]

I need to say it, my Oh is so immature !!

he can have times where hes mature.. but most of the time hes just so immature and child like, even my family say ' how can he be a dad when hes that immature' and notice little comments he says that just dont need to be said !!

I dont think him being at college helps! He'll come home and tell me stories of how that day, him and his mates were terrorin these group of girls, and how his mates went up to an 'ugly' girl and gave them one of their mates number, and all this! i just think ffs, grow up a bit!

He just told me that his one mate is speaking to this girl and gave her his number today, then this other lad came out to the girl askin who his mate was, trying to start on him. Then oh said ' if he gets into a fight im gonna get me n the boys to rush him man' n all this, i just think WHAT? u arn't a fighter, u dont fight, stop acting like u do!!

God it drives me insane! Why cant he just frigging GROW UP!

 

[Pyrrhic]

Thought this might cheer you up:

https://www.tops2bottoms.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/boys-are-stupid.jpg

 

[Laura--x]

thanks although id like to do more than throw rocks sometimes !!

 

[Rach276]

o hun, hopefully he'll relise that hes going to be a Daddy and cant 'rush' people any more! xx

 

[AppleBlossom]

He'll be thrown into a completely different world once your LO is here. He will have no choice but to grow up. He'll realise this hopefully sooner rather than later x

 

[Laura--x]

I know yeah, i just wish he would start now! My family are starting to notice it really bad.

Like we got a new puppy the other day and i have her in my room on the floor untill we can leave her on her own, and i was saying how she wakes up at 5am for a play, and my dad had said yeah the baby will have you up a few times a night wanting to be fed and whatnot! And oh straight said ' i aint getting up, i have college in the week!' of course my dad was like eyes open so wide, erm yes u are mate its your baby, i had to work and was still up at 1,3 and 5am, and oh was like, i can do it the weekends.

Now all my family do is make comments at how immature and irresponsbile he is .

 

[AppleBlossom]

My dad gets annoyed that my OH has never done a night feed. He gets up for work at half 5, travels 1.5 hours there and back and doesn't get in till 7 plus I wake up when she does anyway which is why I don't make him do it. However on a sunday he takes her in the morning so I can have a lie in. You're family need to understand you are still young and your OH obviously hasn't grasped the reality of bringing up a baby. It's damn hard work. Maybe take him to your antenatal classes when you start going. They tell you the real ins and outs pretty much and then he can start to realise just how much responsibility he will have and how he will have to stop acting like a hormonal teenager. It probably doesn't help that he appears to hang around with extremely immature people

 

[HannahGraceee]

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I hate it when boys are like that, they say something, but im just think, "But you wouldnt tho" lol

 

[Laura--x]

yeah, my family get involved wayy to much. Oh will say something, then the next day when hes gone theyll comment on it. Thats what annoys me about living at home -_- !!

Yup im going to drag him along when we go, he will proberly not come though! I understand that its alot to take in for him, but ive had to grow up so much so its 10x harder to see hes not even trying.

 

[AppleBlossom]

You have the baby to carry around so it's different for you, the reality is more obvious to you. He can still do what he likes, drink, smoke, go out etc. Soon you'll be big and heavy lol don't worry, he'll be fine

 

[orange-sox]

Oh Laura, men are fucktards when they want to be...

mines not much better and he's 22... still thinks there is a chance I will have an abortion - idiot.

I hope he soon realises that this baby will rely on you both entirely, and he can't just say "I've got college in the morning, go to sleep". If he won't go to your classes with you then I'd explain to him that by doing so he is showing a complete lack of care for you or your babies wellbeing.

for you hun x

 

[jellytub]

aghhhhh why is it that boys grow up SO much slower than us girls haha ..
just take the higher ground and let him see he's getting nowhere being the immature one, especially when LO is born.
Try not to let it get to you honey, its the last thing you need right now x

 

[mrscookie]

Hi hun, no advice.... you know how I feel about your OH.
*hugs* you are better than he is. Tell him to grow up!
boys..... peh