In denial & shock. Confused. Pls help x

[Sparkle xox]

I can't quite believe I'm writing this... Ill start from the beginning.. I found out I was pregnant with my first on 5th nov and me and hubby were over the moon. However I started o bleed on 14th dec when I should have been 9 weeks 3 days. Scab revealed baba has stopped growing at 7 weeks and I took the tablets to induce mc which happened on 20th dec. We were devestated. I got what I think was my period on 16 th January but it was so light and only lasted a couple days Im not even sure it was?
Then on 25th Jan I did an opk and was chuffed when the smiley face was staring back. So we did te deed that day and the day after. For some reason yesterday I took a test, I don't feel any different I just almost wanted reassurance it was negative which I thought it would be so I could stop driving myself demented. Low and behold it was positive. I used a superdug one and it was a double pack so I did another a few hours later- still positive.
This morning I did a clear blue digital and again it says 1-2 weeks. I'm in complete shock. I feel happy, nervous excited and so so scared. I'm worried it's just left over hormones fron mc but I did a clear blue on 5th Jan and it sai not pregnant so surely not?
Please help calm ne down and reassure me.
Also I don't know what to do now, by last period I'm only 3 weeks 1 day. Scared it's a chemical pg. Do I wait to next eek to go to dr? Ibwant sone sort of reassurance that I am actually pregnant xxx

 

[chathamlady]

It can happen if your concerned you can always get repeat beta hcg done to make sure the levels go up. there are quite a few women who have gotten there bfp before af

 

[Sparkle xox]

I'm in the uk so we don't get beta or hcg levels taken I don't think? I'd love to though!

 

[vegazbaby]

unfortunately i doubt the doctor will do anything, when i called mine in a similar position she said we would only do tests and scans if there was a problem.

ive read that after a mc you are super fertile, all you can do is ride it out and if you really want to be sure book for an early private scan to put your mind at rest.

i wish you all the luck in the world

 

[Emmy0320]

Crossing my fingers that it's a BFP for you. My doctor did blood tests after both miscarriages until my levels reached zero. It took about 4-5 weeks for me each time if that gives you an idea. I got my period about a month after I his zero.

 

[crossedfinger]

I'd definitely go to the doctor's. I'm in the US, and our doc usually doesn't do hcg levels, either, but he would if I asked him to. I don't know how else they'd be sure it was a new pregnancy, unless you wait to see the pregnancy develop.

 

[goddess25]

I am sure if you go armed with the reasons why you want the betas done they cannot say no, especially with your history. I am sure you do have your BFP,and yes its scary. I would not imagine that you have any hcg left in your system from your previous mc. Congratualtions. I know what a scary time it is.

 

[Greener Grass]

I am in the uk and have had three betas done this pregnancy. The more insistant you are the more chance you will have. Good luck