Katece - I'm truly sorry for your loss. I remember how it feels when it's all fresh. If it makes you feel better to search for answers then do it. I found that helped but maybe it was time that helped. It's 20 months since we lost our boy at 25+2 and i think time has healed some of the wounds.
Any uterine anomaly comes with IC risk, but most docs don't remember that from med school unless. Arcuate is the least worst of the anomalies if that helps. I have unicornuate which is the worst apparently.
With regards to your c-section, I think that was the best decision to have one. We weren't given that option at all, I was made to do footling breech delivery. Baby boys heart rate was perfect seconds before he was delivered..... then he was gone. I will always believe it was the delivery that caused his death. I am still angry and still believe he would be with us today toddling around me right now had they done a csect.
The point I'm trying to make is you're not alone, you've every right to feel every emotion out there and give yourself time to heal and time to get answers. Above all, take control, see as many specialists as it takes. You have a uterine anomaly and history of late loss, you must have cerclage in future. I have the details of the most experienced and willing consultants in cerclage in UK and USA so please let me know if it will help you to speak with them and I will give you their details xxx
Any uterine anomaly comes with IC risk, but most docs don't remember that from med school unless. Arcuate is the least worst of the anomalies if that helps. I have unicornuate which is the worst apparently.
With regards to your c-section, I think that was the best decision to have one. We weren't given that option at all, I was made to do footling breech delivery. Baby boys heart rate was perfect seconds before he was delivered..... then he was gone. I will always believe it was the delivery that caused his death. I am still angry and still believe he would be with us today toddling around me right now had they done a csect.
The point I'm trying to make is you're not alone, you've every right to feel every emotion out there and give yourself time to heal and time to get answers. Above all, take control, see as many specialists as it takes. You have a uterine anomaly and history of late loss, you must have cerclage in future. I have the details of the most experienced and willing consultants in cerclage in UK and USA so please let me know if it will help you to speak with them and I will give you their details xxx