So last week my FIL said he was planning a cruise with MIL and they were looking at going the week I am due. .... He asked if I would ask my dr to be induced a week early so that they would be here when lo is born.
I'm not too fond of the idea of induction, and would much rather go into labor on my own. Not to mention the timing is horrible! One week early puts me getting induced on my sons birthday, which is the Monday before thanksgiving! My family always has a huge party and I really don't want to miss it, or take a newborn.
I know it is my decision and I can tell them no, but my husband is also giving me pressure because he thinks I should just do it for their sake.
Am I wrong for feeling like telling them off? I would have no problem if she happened to come early on her own, but come on! Scheduling my child's birth so YOU can go on vacation? Seems ridiculous to me. Not to mention they've already been on 6 cruises in the last year.
I'm not too fond of the idea of induction, and would much rather go into labor on my own. Not to mention the timing is horrible! One week early puts me getting induced on my sons birthday, which is the Monday before thanksgiving! My family always has a huge party and I really don't want to miss it, or take a newborn.
I know it is my decision and I can tell them no, but my husband is also giving me pressure because he thinks I should just do it for their sake.
Am I wrong for feeling like telling them off? I would have no problem if she happened to come early on her own, but come on! Scheduling my child's birth so YOU can go on vacation? Seems ridiculous to me. Not to mention they've already been on 6 cruises in the last year.