Hello All,
I became pregnant after about 2 years of trying. It was the happiest time of my life and I am now 30 weeks
I have intense anxiety that I try to keep under control with meditation/acupuncture/hypnotherapy/CBT but it is just not enough. My doctor is insisting I start on anti-depressants but as it will take a while for them to kick in is it really worth it before my baby is born?
Three weeks ago I read that early ultrasounds cause autism on various forums. I had early ultrasounds due to my anxiety and not believing I was pregnant! I know that sounds mad but at the time I didnt realise what problems I could be causing. I wake up 3am every day and lay there panicking until it is time to get up.
I had my partner tested for his RH status as I am negative, it turns out he is also negative. I have already had an anti-d injection and even after 6 hours of researching I cannot find anything that confirms or denies an anti-d injection will affect a negative fetus - it just says if your partner is negative you do not need the injection.
I have tried so hard since day 1 to do things "right" but for everything I did "right" I have done 10 things wrong.
I feel broken, lost and devastated. My partner is at his wits end trying to cope with me and of course, my stress will be affecting my poor baby (which according to midwife appointments is actually doing quite well and I hope so much that this is the case).
What shall I do? I am sorry for the long message. I have wanted to post for weeks but just didn't know how to word it.
If anyone has any comments on the ultrasounds or RH status I would much appreciate it. My head is a mess trying to comprehend it. If my child had special needs I would cope, what I would not cope with is the realisation it is down to me.
Thank you so much. This should be the happiest time of my life and instead i am stuck in a nightmare that doesn't seem to end.
I became pregnant after about 2 years of trying. It was the happiest time of my life and I am now 30 weeks
I have intense anxiety that I try to keep under control with meditation/acupuncture/hypnotherapy/CBT but it is just not enough. My doctor is insisting I start on anti-depressants but as it will take a while for them to kick in is it really worth it before my baby is born?
Three weeks ago I read that early ultrasounds cause autism on various forums. I had early ultrasounds due to my anxiety and not believing I was pregnant! I know that sounds mad but at the time I didnt realise what problems I could be causing. I wake up 3am every day and lay there panicking until it is time to get up.
I had my partner tested for his RH status as I am negative, it turns out he is also negative. I have already had an anti-d injection and even after 6 hours of researching I cannot find anything that confirms or denies an anti-d injection will affect a negative fetus - it just says if your partner is negative you do not need the injection.
I have tried so hard since day 1 to do things "right" but for everything I did "right" I have done 10 things wrong.
I feel broken, lost and devastated. My partner is at his wits end trying to cope with me and of course, my stress will be affecting my poor baby (which according to midwife appointments is actually doing quite well and I hope so much that this is the case).
What shall I do? I am sorry for the long message. I have wanted to post for weeks but just didn't know how to word it.
If anyone has any comments on the ultrasounds or RH status I would much appreciate it. My head is a mess trying to comprehend it. If my child had special needs I would cope, what I would not cope with is the realisation it is down to me.
Thank you so much. This should be the happiest time of my life and instead i am stuck in a nightmare that doesn't seem to end.