icegurl470
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I have a moral dilemma. A position has opened up in the HR department for the company I already work for. It's a pay grade higher than what I'm in now and it's a nice cushy admin job, which is what I want. I applied and surprisingly got an interview. During the interview they informed me the position will be replacing a woman who is retiring after 28 years. They would like to fill the position as quickly as possible because she is leaving the end of May and will need to train her replacement. She's basically the only person who does her job and who ever takes her place will have big shoes to fill.
I was 9 weeks pregnant and did not tell them during my interview. I am now 11 weeks pregnant and have a second interview today. I want to tell them because if they offer me the job I will feel bad for not telling them. At the same time I don't want to ruin my chances, especially since I'm not past the 12 week mark yet. I don't want the fact that I'm pregnant to influence their decision. If I tell them and then they dont offer me the job, I will always wonder if it was because of my pregnancy. If I dont tell them and they do offer me the job, I will feel bad for not telling them. I know legally it's not suppose to matter and I don't have to say, but what are your thoughts, experiences. Any advise? Thanks
I was 9 weeks pregnant and did not tell them during my interview. I am now 11 weeks pregnant and have a second interview today. I want to tell them because if they offer me the job I will feel bad for not telling them. At the same time I don't want to ruin my chances, especially since I'm not past the 12 week mark yet. I don't want the fact that I'm pregnant to influence their decision. If I tell them and then they dont offer me the job, I will always wonder if it was because of my pregnancy. If I dont tell them and they do offer me the job, I will feel bad for not telling them. I know legally it's not suppose to matter and I don't have to say, but what are your thoughts, experiences. Any advise? Thanks