Hi all! I've been a lurker for quite a while and am finally deciding to post and introduce my LO, Julia Grace, who was born on March 25, 2014 at 1:35pm, weighing 4 lbs, 15 oz and 17.5 inches long. She was 34+2.
I had my work baby shower on Tuesday, March 18th at 33+2. Showed all the cute stuff to DH that night before bed, since he was leaving the next morning very early for a work trip. I remember going thru it all with him and commenting on how small everything was! We went to bed that night feeling good but not looking forward to DH's trip, since he has such anxiety about flying.
I woke up at midnight to use the bathroom and didn't feel quite right. I can't say that I was having contractions but something about them (maybe Braxton Hicks) just felt off. I laid in bed for about an hour paying attention to them when I suddenly felt the urge to go to the bathroom again. When I stood up I felt some leaking, so I RAN to the toilet and just BARELY made it before the big gush. My first thought was "Oh shit.

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I called my OB from the bathroom and she said to go in to check if it was my waters, so I woke up DH and told him we needed to go to the hospital, and that I had a feeling he wasn't going on his work trip. It took us nearly an hour to get out of the house because I couldn't even think straight to pack anything. I had no idea if I was going to be staying in the hospital or coming home.
When we got to the hospital and they checked me, sure enough my water had broken, but I wasn't having any contractions (no idea at this point if I was dilated since they didn't want to check me and risk infection). But since my water had broken, they told me I wasn't leaving until LO was born, however long that would take. They started me on antibiotics and gave me my first shot of steroids to help her lungs develop. They kept me in L&D for several hours on the monitors, but once they started getting busier with actual deliveries, they moved me to antipartem. I stayed there for 5 more days on strict bed rest. At this point I was 33+3, and my OB wanted to try and get me to 34 if possible before inducing.
On Sunday, March 23rd, they moved me back to L&D and started my induction at 8pm. I was terrified of being induced because I wanted so badly to have a drug-free delivery, but LO's health was more important at this point. They gave me Misoprostol to try and get contractions started and get me dilating, since I hadn't started yet. Then Monday morning they started pitocin. We did pit all day Monday with no progress on dilating even though I was having mild contractions, so monday night, they turned off pit and gave me more Misoprostol and let me sleep (yeah right!). Contractions were getting stronger at this point so I didn't sleep very well that night.
At 8am Tuesday, March 25th, they started pit again, and I begged for an epidural. I was still only about 1cm dilated, but I couldn't handle the contractions any more. Once the epi was in, I immediately fell asleep.
At 1pm, they came in and checked me and I was fully dilated, ready to go. Everything became a whirlwind at that point. My OB told me LO was going to come out quickly because she was small (measuring 5 lbs) and they were going to put her on my tummy, clean her off, let DH cut the cord, move her to the warming table to be cleaned off and assessed by the neonatologist, and then be taken straight to the NICU.
I pushed through probably 3 contractions, maybe 5 minutes and maybe 9 pushes, and she was out. Once they got the cord unwrapped (twice around her neck, and once around her arm), she started screaming, I was SO relieved! They did exactly what they said they were going to do once she was out, except once she was all cleaned up and swaddled, they brought her to me and let me hold her for about 10 minutes before they took her to the NICU. I felt this was a very good sign, since she was breathing 100% on her own and didn't need any help at all with it!
They took her to the NICU with DH, while they finished with me. When my OB delivered the placenta, she told me the cord was in the membranes (not where it should be). They have never used the term "velamentous cord insertion" so I'm not sure if that's what I had or not, but even though LO was early, if I did in fact have that, I'm glad she was early bcs otherwise she may not have survived. The only thing they told me at my 6 wk check-up was that the placenta was small. They did mention that the cord was in the membranes but that was it.
Anyway, LO spent 13 days in the NICU, learning to suck/swallow/breathe and regulate her temp. She did have one feeding that took longer than they allow so they inserted a tube but never had to actually use it. She pulled it out herself about 2 days later, said "no thanks!"
She's been home with us now for 6 weeks and she's doing so well! She was born 4 lbs 15 oz, 17.5 inches long, and at her last dr appt, she was 7 lbs, 3oz and over 19 inches! That was a few weeks ago, so I'm thinking she's at least 8 lbs now! We are currently working on trying to transition from bottle-fed expressed milk to EBF (advice welcome!).
I'll upload pics once I figure out how!
whew! sorry that was so long!