Is anyone esle dreading Xmas

[FunnyBunny]

I'm so ba humbug this year about Xmas, in Feb we will have been TTC for 2 years and have had a chemical pg and MMC this year. Xmas is a time for the kiddies and we don't have a family of our own to share it with and to top it off AF is due on Xmas day and i can feel the on her way already. There was only one xmas prezzie I was afer this year a and it looks like I won't be getting my wish from santa.

PLEASE PLEASE MAKE disappear! I WANT A INSTEAD!!

 

[CareBear]

I know how you feel I feel christmas has kinda snuck up on me but I've been able to push my feelings and thoughts to the back of my mind due to having my lap and dye last week. I'm determined to enjoy my time with my family have a few drinks and gear up to oing around new year eve! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you you never know you might get a nice surprise on christmas day or boxing day!

 

[bonfloss]

You are not alone, last Christmas I thought that by this time we would be well on our way but life has not turned out how we wanted it to! Keep your chin up and hang in there.
xx

 

[Bexy]

Hey FunnyBunny!

I had exactly the same rant on a thread yesterday but must have overlooked yours!

We are in exactly the same boat - I feel so bah humbug too and the is due Xmas Day so I will be such good fun...not!

Hopefully 2009 will be our year and all of us LTTTC'ers will be preggers by Xmas 09!!!

xxx

 

[tansey]

I love being with my family but i do feel more sad around Christmas - yesterday we all went on the Santa train and me and DF were in a carriage on our own and everyone was joking calling it the love carriage because we were just a couple with no kids. It was lovely to see my nephews excited but I felt that me and DF looked like saddos at our age with no kids. I even wanted to ask santa for a baby.

 

[Brambletess]

I think I am alright with Christmas, just seeing it as a break and an excuse to eat loads. Nothing to do with cute kids and happy families....I may have to put a ban on anything on television that involves babies though.

 

[ellie]

I'm not sure what I'm feeling about xmas really .... on one hand i'm looking forward to being off work, hanging out with OH and friends and family and going on holiday
But .... i had an mc last xmas day (great timing huh) we will be spending lots of time with two little nephews, and there will be loads of talk from parents (all in their 60's now) about 'xmas is for kids' and 'we only do xmas for the kids' etc etc etc, and i'm also dreading in case (although i've no real reason to think this!) there might be a big pg announcement from some member of the family ..... bah humbug from me too !
i hope we can all have a reasonably nice time over xmas and new year though ... and here's to 's to us all in 2009

 

[NeyNey]

I've been through too many Christmas while TTC to let it get to me now. I focus on having my family close to me. I'd love to have a baby for Christmas, but I can't let that get in the way of being thankful for the things I DO have.

 

[Nathyrra]

I thought it would bother me. It's been a stressful year, but I put up my little tree yesterday turned the lights on and watched my furbabies become amazed by the tinsle and it made me feel warm inside. lol, so I think I'll be ok. x