I dunno, am I being unreasonable? I have this friend who has two children. One is 2 and a half and the other is 6 months old. She texted me the other day to see if I fancied meeting up so I said "yes, what do u fancy doing". She suggested either a walk or that I go round to hers. So I said a walk would be great as the weather is so nice at the mo. Last few times we've met I've gone to hers and we've ended up stuck inside. She then replied that it would have to be in the morning as her 6m old has to have a nap in the afternoon. So I suggested 11am and she replied saying that it would have to be a quick walk as 6m old needs a bottle at 11.30am. So I rush round that morning to get us all up and dressed and timed feeds so we could meet up only to get a text half an hour before hand saying that it was too sunny and she couldn't take her 2.5 year old out in the sun. Is it me?! I am being unreasonable to want to reply "stick a hat and some suncream on her and get out in the fresh air". It really peed me off. I know she has two children too, but couldn't her routine be relaxed a little or the 6m old have a nap in the pram? I didn't reply and we're off to the christening of the 6m old on Sunday. I just know she will be stewing about my lack of reply as much as I am stewing about her text! Friends, eh? Who needs 'em?