Kristin83
Mommy to twin boys & NTNP
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My husbands younger cousin got pregnant by accident just before graduating from high school. His family said they are happy and taking things as they come even though this isn't what they were hoping for her.
I cannot be happy for her no matter what I've tried. With the struggle that we have gone through to try and get pregnant I kinda feel like its not fair...especially when it was unplanned. She isn't the most mature/responsible person either and the raising of the baby will most likely be left for her mother to do....
She had her baby last night....i'm 5 days away from finding out if our cycle of IVF worked...its just making it even harder to stay positive when his family calls me to tell me about the baby and sends me pics....i so want to tell them that I don't care but do not want to be mean...
Am I being petty?
I cannot be happy for her no matter what I've tried. With the struggle that we have gone through to try and get pregnant I kinda feel like its not fair...especially when it was unplanned. She isn't the most mature/responsible person either and the raising of the baby will most likely be left for her mother to do....
She had her baby last night....i'm 5 days away from finding out if our cycle of IVF worked...its just making it even harder to stay positive when his family calls me to tell me about the baby and sends me pics....i so want to tell them that I don't care but do not want to be mean...
Am I being petty?