liamnsean
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Okay- I want to preface this with saying that I feeling incredibly blessed and thankful that I am pregnant with a healthy baby boy. I truly am. I already have one little boy and I know that they'll be great pals and have a great time growing up together...at least I hope. I also realize that many people try and try to have children and struggle with it and we had no problems either time...that too is a blessing.
This is the problem...
I find myself kind of mourning the fact that I am not going to ever have a daughter of my own. I want to stop thinking of it, but it keeps creeping back up on me. We are 99% sure we are done after two. It's not that I want this little guy to be a girl, guess I kind of wish we could have one more, but there are no guarantees we'd have a girl anyway. Two in daycare is going to break the bank and just can't fathom having three in daycare. Also, I am getting up there in age and think that this is enough for my body. How do I not think about what I am missing without a girl and just stay focused on my boys. It probably didn't help that I was talking to two ladies at work with only boys. Their boys are much older and they both told me that the desire to have a daughter is still ALWAYS there for them. I don't want to be like that 20 years from now!!
This is the problem...
I find myself kind of mourning the fact that I am not going to ever have a daughter of my own. I want to stop thinking of it, but it keeps creeping back up on me. We are 99% sure we are done after two. It's not that I want this little guy to be a girl, guess I kind of wish we could have one more, but there are no guarantees we'd have a girl anyway. Two in daycare is going to break the bank and just can't fathom having three in daycare. Also, I am getting up there in age and think that this is enough for my body. How do I not think about what I am missing without a girl and just stay focused on my boys. It probably didn't help that I was talking to two ladies at work with only boys. Their boys are much older and they both told me that the desire to have a daughter is still ALWAYS there for them. I don't want to be like that 20 years from now!!