Hey Emmy!
Just catching up on your journal, you have done so much in my absence lol! I love the FG dress, it so cute and the invitations sound like they are gonna be fab! Have you started a prototype yet?? Good news about your hair and nails too, it will be nice having someone who is there just to do your hair and not worry about getting everyone elses done too. I have got 4 BM's so I may try and do the same - I don't want to turn into a Bridezilla on the day of the wedding because I am stressing about hair lol.
As for the BM dress, I would suggest just asking her outright if she is not happy about it and then you will know where you stand. I can appreciate that as you are paying for the dress then technically you do have the final say. All I would consider is that if you get her a dress that she isn't comfortable in then she is not going to be able to relax and enjoy your special day. I was MOH last year and I hated the dress so much, I couldn't wait to get it off. It was a pretty dress, it just didn't flatter my figure at all and I had to wear a strapless bra with it as the style was all fiddly. I ended up getting changed for the evening reception as I was so uncomfortable. I am glad it happened though as I knew what not to do when I was shopping for my BM dresses, I made sure its a style that all the girls are comfortable with and is flattering on their figure. I don't mind if they want to get changed in the evening but I dont want it to be because they hate the dress. I am sorry if I have overstepped the mark by saying all this!
Anyways, stop being so organised - you make me look bad missy!
x