It's been 7 weeks since mc but still not af...when to ring the GP?

[bobster]

Oh no my siggy didn't work! hope this is not a sign.. may leave it off for a while just in case!

 

[GI_Jane]

I did see you had done that and put a pic and I thought you were brave but I'm pleased you are feeling postive and excited.

My mum and a close friend who had mc for their first, said it just felt different when they fell again and carried to term. They couldn't explain why so looks like this will be your sticky bean, especially as your oh predicted it too.

I don't have af yet and I don't know what dpo I am. I'm on day 48 of this cycle and will be very pleased when it is over. To be honest, I've given up.

Hope it all works out for you.

Take care ladies.x

 

[MrsPhez]

Thanks Jane I'm trying to feel positive about this one. I even added a siggy but then regretted it as thought I might jinx it. Eek still worried but trying to stay as relaxed as possible. Not easy. I have felt more symptoms with this one than the last one and the test on 11dpo was darker than the mc at 11dpo. Still testing like a crazy woman. If only oh knew. He was happy when I told him. He said he already knew, he had a feeling this was the month. Crazy!

How are you Jane? Any symptoms or things to report? Are you 6dpo today or so you think you're 15dpo? Its confusing figuring our o date sometimes. If its any hope for you I think period feels so similar to pregnancy. I even felt snappy before bfp like I do around af. All this symptom spotting is pretty pointless I think although its hard not to do it during the wait.

How are you mrsphez? your temps were good and you had some good signs this cycle so hopefully this will be your month. When do you plan to test?

Does anyone know how to change the 'ttc, pregnant, other' thing to your own words? I couldnt see an option in the settings but I want to change mine to 'cautiously pregnant'

I'm OK thanks Bobster. Temp rose up again today but only back to prev temp, not that I'm complaining. Am happy with my chart and looked at FF to look at preg charts, I felt very reassured. Feeling tired and crampy, woke up with lower back ache. All means nothing till I see that bfp. To me it's all progesterone related. Testing on Friday 10DPO. If I get a pos, I will also be POAS like a cray woman!

 

[GI_Jane]

Implantation dip mrs phez? Looks like this could be your cycle too.

Not that I'm bitter and jealous or anything!

 

[bobster]

Oh Jane pls don't give up. I felt exactly the same the other day and now look! It will happen for u Jane probably sooner than you think. I was trying to think about it like each month of bfn brought me closer to the month to get bfp. U will get a bfp Jane u'v done it before so there's no reason not to again. I think its down to a bit of luck too as u can time everything perfectly sometimes and nothing happens. Stay positive Jane x

 

[MrsPhez]

Implantation dip mrs phez? Looks like this could be your cycle too.

Not that I'm bitter and jealous or anything!

Hmm, prob an irregualrity in my temp taking more like!
Don't give up hun, you're seeing your doc soon who will help you out. It will happen, you know my story of 70 day cycles and conceiving Dexter, it can and will happen for you. But not if you give up OK?!

 

[mlm115]

Don't give up Jane! It may be just you and me left if Phez gets her bfp and I can't stand the thought of you feeling so down!

 

[MrsPhez]

Don't give up Jane! It may be just you and me left if Phez gets her bfp and I can't stand the thought of you feeling so down!

I'm not feeling confident I have to say......we'll see. 3 days to go

 

[bobster]

I have a good feeling for you Phez! Don't fret I had loads of cramps from ovulation until now. I felt just like af was coming too I told you.

I've decided i'm going to remove my siggy as I feel its too early and i'm jinxing things. I will put it back up IF i make it to 6 weeks as i've never been 6 weeks before so that will be a huge positive sign. No others symptoms at all for me, going off to buy some more frers today so I can see if lines got darker (obsessed much?). Then off to dr to beg and plead for a progesterone test.

MrsPhez when did you get a bfp last time? I think you're wise to wait until 10dpo as otherwise you have more time to fret until af date! Keep us posted, i'm excited for your test result!

 

[bobster]

Jane how are you feeling today?

 

[mlm115]

Don't give up Jane! It may be just you and me left if Phez gets her bfp and I can't stand the thought of you feeling so down!

I'm not feeling confident I have to say......we'll see. 3 days to go

In thinking positively for you : )

 

[MrsPhez]

I have a good feeling for you Phez! Don't fret I had loads of cramps from ovulation until now. I felt just like af was coming too I told you.

I've decided i'm going to remove my siggy as I feel its too early and i'm jinxing things. I will put it back up IF i make it to 6 weeks as i've never been 6 weeks before so that will be a huge positive sign. No others symptoms at all for me, going off to buy some more frers today so I can see if lines got darker (obsessed much?). Then off to dr to beg and plead for a progesterone test.

MrsPhez when did you get a bfp last time? I think you're wise to wait until 10dpo as otherwise you have more time to fret until af date! Keep us posted, i'm excited for your test result!

Ah thank you! Was 11 DPO both times, will start testing at 10 (Friday). BUT my LP is only 10/11 days long since mc, it's almost like a race to see which will win, the fertilised egg or the witch but I guess thats the same race everyone has. Cramping has quietened down today, not feeling any different to normal. Yes we dtd at the right times but that doesnt mean anything we're youre an old bird like me!!! Not long now .....

 

[MrsPhez]

Don't give up Jane! It may be just you and me left if Phez gets her bfp and I can't stand the thought of you feeling so down!

I'm not feeling confident I have to say......we'll see. 3 days to go

In thinking positively for you : )

That's very kind of you, I will think positively for your quest as well

 

[MrsPhez]

replied to wrong post!

 

[MrsPhez]

Jane, if you're still reading this, have you tried testing just to see? You never know!

 

[mlm115]

Af started today, woo hoo! Once I know I'm out, I get very impatient for the next cycle to start. Now I just have to buy my preseed and opks and I should be good to go this cycle

 

[MrsPhez]

Af started today, woo hoo! Once I know I'm out, I get very impatient for the next cycle to start. Now I just have to buy my preseed and opks and I should be good to go this cycle

Glad youre feeling better, this waiting business is not a good place to be. Wishing you a successful next attempt!

 

[MrsPhez]

Just decided, I'm gonna bring my testing forward to TOMORROW! Will be 8 DPO, it's not unheard of. If I get a no I wont be surprised but I have 20 tests that are begging to be used. Just ICs. DH was surprised I hadnt started yet, even tho he said he just wanted to wait. So I will be sneaky POASing from tomorrow morning. Feels better to have something to do! Will let you know!

 

[bobster]

Ooooh MrsPhez exciting! I did mine at 8 or 9dpo and saw a colourless shadow so you never know! That appeared after the time limit though slightly. Eeeek you're good not to have started already. The poas obsession is crazy sometimes. 8dpo is veryyyy early though so don't feel bad if its bfn. I might pee on a digi opk later to see if it shows positive. I'm desperate to pee on stick at the moment!

Wasted another £10 on 2 frer's today to see some progression and there wasn't as much as I thought there should be compared to the one 2 days ago. Also had some af type cramps today so feeling a little nervous for tomorrow (af due date). I think if I had another mc that would be it for me and ttc. Feel sad thinking about it I feel so panicky everytime I have a cramp I check my knickers for blood and it brings it all back. Just felt bad carrying 2 bags of shopping home as it happened after I did that the first time. Argh when does the worrying stop! Moan over sorry girls..

 

[bobster]

Af started today, woo hoo! Once I know I'm out, I get very impatient for the next cycle to start. Now I just have to buy my preseed and opks and I should be good to go this cycle

I'm glad you're more positive now too mlm. You have nice short cycles too so you won't have to wait too long for you positive opk and bfp! Do you have a plan of action for bd'ing this month or are you just going to go with the flow?