It's been 7 weeks since mc but still not af...when to ring the GP?

[mlm115]

Yay Bobster!!! Glad you got your 3+!!

 

[bobster]

How are you mlm? How's smep going? When are you due to ovulate?

 

[bobster]

Oh Mackjess poor you! Didn't realise your illness was quite that bad! Glad you're on the mend now though. I wonder why you had to stop the BA at 16 weeks? You gotta just keep reminding yourself that the risks now are so slim of anything going wrong. I know change is hard though. He's going to be just fine I haven't told my gp about taking BA so will prob stop it if and when I get to 16 weeks too. I asked the dr about how to reduce risks and she didn't even mention BA despite 2 cp's :/

Hope you manage to get your new pillow soon!

I hope Jane's ok... I keep my fingers crossed that O came on 11th and a bfp will be coming up.

MLM- Are you due to ovulate on the 18th?? Hope you are getting loads of bd'ing in lady. Enjoy it and let us know how you get on. Are you doing your opk's?

How's Phez?

 

[mlm115]

I agree Mack, seems like you and baby boy will be fine! What a good mommy you will be though when you obviously worry and love him so much already!

I'm wondering about this baby aspirin now. I'm assuming it wouldn't have helped me since mine was a mmc at 7 weeks (found out at 8 weeks)? Not sure, what do you ladies think? I'm really blaming my loss on the fact that it was my first month off of bcp and my hormones were too low or something.

I want to hear from Jane too! Hope she is good.

I am cd 12. Doing smep and using preseed with smiley face opks (no smiley yet). I'm sure I will ovulate sometime in the next week!

 

[bobster]

Hmm no I don't think it would have helped in the missed mc. I think they advise it if you have 2 or more mc's incase you have a clotting issue. They say it doesn't do any harm even if thats not the issue though.

Keep bd'ing mlm, its exciting! Hope this is your month!

 

[MrsPhez]

I'm OK thanks! Been gardening this weekend which is so relaxing, completely clears my head and I think of nothing but what I'm doing, blissful.
I have a pot of baby aspirin I've not touched. Happy to supplemet with vitamins to aid with conception but get a bit nervous by medicines/herbs.
I also believe things happen for a reason and that if you're going to have a mc you're going to have one, for whatever reason. Bit controversial I know, hope I havent upset anyone by saying that.....
CD7 today, thinking of SMEPing as well this month but DH has had a touch of flu and given up the smokes -yey so we'll see. May leave it nearer ov this cycle. Will start POAS on CD10.
Glad all is well with everyone, missing Jane too!

 

[mackjess]

mlm, I started taking the baby aspirin because I had been taking the pill forever and had really light periods so I figured my lining couldn't have been that thick. I got prego the very first month, before I even had a full cycle, off of bfp. since I wanted to try again soon bc I'm 35, I started the aspirin to help thicken the lining. if I had waited 3 cycles like they suggested I probably wouldn't have used it. I just wanted to help my body out since I wasn't giving it much rest. My ob is taking me off it now since I guess I'd there are lotting issues they are usually earlier in pregnancy. I don't really think that was my issue, I'm like you and just think it happened too soon off the pill.

Thanks bobster. starting to feel a tad better today. actually ran and errands but now lyingdown because I have a headache. it usually goes away if I can lay down for a bit. how is your little bean doing?

hope Jane is doing well.

Good luck with smep phez!

 

[bobster]

Mackjess glad you're starting to feel better now.

Beans ok so far thank you (I hope). Still very nervous that they're going to tell me there's nothing there on the first uss. I think we're going to try and get an earlier scan through the midwife but if they don't agree then we'll pay for a private one. Almost want to put it off to delay the possibility of bad news which is crazy I know.

Mlm any news on ovulation yet?
MrsPhez, glad you are relaxing any enjoying gardening. I can imagine it would be quite therapeutic. I'm not very green fingered myself.
Also thats great that OH has stopping smoking. That will improve your chances I'm sure. You didn't offend me don't worry. In fact I think its more comforting thinking about mc that way as it takes away the 'blame' factor about things you may have done wrong. When's your expected ovulation mrsphez?

 

[mlm115]

Cd 14, and just got my smiley face opk! Woo!

 

[mackjess]

Get some MLM!!

 

[bobster]

Woop enjoy your baby dancing!!!

 

[MrsPhez]

Mackjess glad you're starting to feel better now.

Beans ok so far thank you (I hope). Still very nervous that they're going to tell me there's nothing there on the first uss. I think we're going to try and get an earlier scan through the midwife but if they don't agree then we'll pay for a private one. Almost want to put it off to delay the possibility of bad news which is crazy I know.

Mlm any news on ovulation yet?
MrsPhez, glad you are relaxing any enjoying gardening. I can imagine it would be quite therapeutic. I'm not very green fingered myself.
Also thats great that OH has stopping smoking. That will improve your chances I'm sure. You didn't offend me don't worry. In fact I think its more comforting thinking about mc that way as it takes away the 'blame' factor about things you may have done wrong. When's your expected ovulation mrsphez?

Maybe this weekend? Not sure as last 2 cycles differed by around 5 days but I' started POAS this morning with 2 diff tests, one is slightly misleading so will be sticking with the green ones. No CBFM for me, too expensive! Will try and grab my DH later for some action, bit late for SMEP but will try their suggestion from today onwards (CD10) every other day till a pos OPK then every day. If my DH is up to it that is! Not going to tell him about SMEP, takes the fun out!
How's everyone else? Good luck this month MLM!

 

[bobster]

Oooh I wouldn't worry about not starting on cd 8 you'll be fine in sure. Just dtd as much as possible this weekend I would say. It's hard seducing them around that time isn't it. I never tell my oh anything aboutmy cycle either as it gets a bit clinical doesn't it. Oooh excited for u both. Fingers firmly crossed! Mlm did u get lots of bd'ing in so far? X

 

[mlm115]

We are doing smep, so bd'ing every other day.. We dtd yesterday and will today and tomorrow also. It's crazy how badly I want this to happen!!!

 

[bobster]

You sound like you've deffo covered all your bases if you do that mlm! I really hope this is it for you. Come on spermies. I think its good you bd a lot before as they will be waiting when your egg pops.

I'm a bit worried about my symptoms. Not feeling very sick at all yet, had a tiny bit of nausea yesterday and the other day but that's it. Its so mild that i'm actually not even sure if its just been in my imagination. Also my boobs are less sore today. Recently when I've taken my bra off its really hurt them but today they're fine. Just slightly sore when poked.. surely they should be getting more sore if anything?

I'm panicking about everything, oh just keeps saying not to worry but I can't help it. God I'm dreading another mc I'm 6 weeks exactly tomorrow. Do you think I need to do anything? No bleeding yet.

 

[mackjess]

bobster, ms usually doesnt really start for a lot.of women til 6-8 weeks, or you could be one kf the lucky ones like me and not get it. sounds crazy, but it was torture to not be sick, not even the progesterone made me sick. my only symps was being extremely tired and sore boobs. that comes and goes, I bet tomorrow that soreness comes back with a vengeance! I'm sure you are still doing ok. I know its stressfull.

 

[MrsPhez]

You sound like you've deffo covered all your bases if you do that mlm! I really hope this is it for you. Come on spermies. I think its good you bd a lot before as they will be waiting when your egg pops.

I'm a bit worried about my symptoms. Not feeling very sick at all yet, had a tiny bit of nausea yesterday and the other day but that's it. Its so mild that i'm actually not even sure if its just been in my imagination. Also my boobs are less sore today. Recently when I've taken my bra off its really hurt them but today they're fine. Just slightly sore when poked.. surely they should be getting more sore if anything?

I'm panicking about everything, oh just keeps saying not to worry but I can't help it. God I'm dreading another mc I'm 6 weeks exactly tomorrow. Do you think I need to do anything? No bleeding yet.

I had zero symptoms with Dexter apart from some cramping. No sore BBs, NO sickness. I had one queasy moment when DH cpooked a chicken dinner which I couldnt eat but that was IT and wasnt till further on in pregnancy. Listen to your other half, difficult I know!!!!!
On a side note, This Morning is doing a fertility special at some point in next few weeks. Need to phone in by next Tues with fertility probs and you could get on the show! Just dont know when the show actually is.
Got lots of clear stretchy stuff today, I think this is a good start to the week ahead

 

[MrsPhez]

Just remembered got my pelvic US on Thurs for my 5cm cyst. Right when I might be o'ing! Hope it doesnt affect my chances! And was going to grab DH Thurs morning as he's off. Well I might anyway they'll never know. Needs must and all that! But they'll be able to tell me if I what stage I'm at of ovulation which is good. Hopin for 2 follicles hehe! And as for strectchy CM, scrap that, it was TMI look away now, pouring out when I went to the loo and it was the good stuff. Neg OPK though. I only just finished AF at weekend! Weirdo cycles......

 

[bobster]

Thanks so much guys I feel much better now. I just have these moments of terror sometimes. I've been poking my boobs a lot today and I think they are a bit sore again now although that could be from the poking lol! Mackjess I'm the same with wanting some sickness, its crazy. OH's agreed to an early scan at 8 weeks now so that's good although I'm scared stiff of not seeing a heartbeat.

MrsPhez I hope you are getting to it! I think the more ewcm you have the better the chances so sounds great this month for you. Keep jumping OH as much as you can now so his men are ready and waiting for your egg. How good timing is that?! There will be no doubt for you when you've ovulated this cycle hopefully! Lets hope you ovulate Thursday as planned. Your cycles sound great at the moment compared to your past long cycles. You and mlm have great cycles.

Not sure about writing into This Morning but will definitely be worth checking out the show.

Ooooh I'm so excited for the next bfp's! Get to it ladies !!!

 

[MrsPhez]

Told DH to be ready for action, he's all for it! That's a relief. Yeah my cycles are getting shorter and shorter! Could it really be the vitamins? Not sure what else it could be though. We must catch the egg hey MLM? Think I had a dud last month, hope this one's a goodun