Morning girls, thanks for all your messages! Time, don't be disheartened, look at me with contractions the day before... Today could be your day!
So, my birth story.... We decided to get a madras ordered to be delivered, whilst we were waiting, I started getting back ache. Just before it arrived, we were dishing up Luke's tea when I felt a wet feeling, on wiping I had clear, smell free water. It was only tricking slowly. The takeaway guy knocked on our door at 6.15pm and as he did I just had a huge gush of water soak me! It was so weird as I never had that last time! We were told to go in to be checked, I had a quick shower where I lost loads more water! The traffic was awful to get across colchester, we got there, shown to a room and just waited.... And waited... The contractions had just started by then, all in my back.Met a midwife finally, wee tested, baby heartbeat checked, 145 so all fine and baby not back to back!. Another midwife then came in to do the internal, was very uncomfortable and lost more water! 4cm dilated so was admitted. Was given gas and air which I started to use at around 2 minutes apart. The contractions started to get a lot worse around 10.30pm, just after my named midwife took over, coming around every 30 seconds. I tried being upright and kneeling but found laying on my side best. I went a bit crazy just gone 11pm, I said I couldn't do anymore and needed to push. Was offered different pain relief but on examination I was already fully dilated and crowning. The feeling was just mad, I was so scared I would poo cos of the pressure but a few pushes and he was out! I had the injection and after 5 minutes delivered the placenta. So baby Oliver arrived, just on gas and air, perfectly healthy with dark hair, blue eyes and chubby cheeks! I had no stitches, I just got a graze on my labia which stings like hell when I wee!!!
I'm finding breast feeding hard, latching is getting more difficult but I'm not giving up!
Thank you all for everything, for being amazing friends over the last 9 months. I can't wait to meet all your babies xxx