It's like no one understands

[trinaestella]

Hey girls, it's nothing much really but people don't seem to actually get it that I am pregnant.

My friends are always asking me to go out and drink with them, or to go on a week holiday to Amsterdam to smoke weed

Kinda makes me upset because, I am so happy that I am pregnant but it's like I have to wait a year for me to be able to do these things and I feel like I just want people to notice that I am pregnant and not this outgoing girl I used to be.

I'm only in my first trimester and I have been tired all the time so I haven't really gone out, except from up the road and back. Today I was supposed to meet my bestfriend(future Godmother) and I walked out the door, and all of a sudden I just felt like nauseated and I needed to go home and sleep. So I messaged her and told her that I couldn't make it because I felt weak, and tired.

Then she just got mad at me , of course she's calmed down now but people need to realise that I am pregnant and I can't do the things I used to because of my tiredness and I have no energy to be sociallizing with people. Maybe when I get a bump they will begin to notice more

That's all I wanted to say really

 

[xSarahM]

Treacle, trust me. You'd feel a lot worse if they didnt invite you

 

[trinaestella]

I know, I think i'd be a bit jealous :\

 

[mummymarsh]

yes you would feel worse.. and pregnancy isnt an illness... according to your ticker your only 5 weeks so thats barely a missed period... and if your exhausted already, theen you will be in for a shock....

being pregnant doesnt mean you cant do the things you used to do... ok so you cant drink and smoke weed- but it shouldnt stop you socialising with your friends, even if it means crashing at a mates and scoffing chocolate and dvds......

x

 

[xSarahM]

Could agree more with Mummymarsh!

 

[Bexxx]

Have you thought about seeing a dr about how exhausted you are? Doesn't sound great

I still do everything I used to, minus the drinking obviously, but you should still be able to go out with your friends
I didn't find out I was pregnant until a bit later than you, but in that time I had gone on holiday with my friends, loads of gigs getting squashed at the front and quite a few parties

 

[trinaestella]

hmm maybe i should see a doctor, i'm just always tired i thought it was normal

 

[LovingMommy10]

Thats how I am to, I can barely run into the store to get groceries, and its frusterating exsp. cause i dont have the food I want at the house! Im always tired, and when Im up to long I feel faint and sick. my doc just says stay hidrated, eat and if you cant do things dont.. Take it slow and get all the rest you need, you'll have good days and bad days. Hope things look up for you! If they dont understand, we do so you can always talk to us!

 

[kittycat18]

Wait until your 35 weeks and have a babys head so far down that it feels as if they are lying tight on your vagina

 

[trinaestella]

Wait until your 35 weeks and have a babys head so far down that it feels as if they are lying tight on your vagina

LOOL i can't even begin to imagine

 

[trinaestella]

Thats how I am to, I can barely run into the store to get groceries, and its frusterating exsp. cause i dont have the food I want at the house! Im always tired, and when Im up to long I feel faint and sick. my doc just says stay hidrated, eat and if you cant do things dont.. Take it slow and get all the rest you need, you'll have good days and bad days. Hope things look up for you! If they dont understand, we do so you can always talk to us!

Aww thanks babe, and I know same here I don't have the food I want in my house neither so I am always tired because I don't get the energy that I need.

 

[kittycat18]

LOOL i can't even begin to imagine

My baby is huge. 5lbs of sheer glory pushing down on my pelvis (but feels like my vagina)!!!!

 

[Chrissy7411]

Wait until your 35 weeks and have a babys head so far down that it feels as if they are lying tight on your vagina

WSS I went out to get a bunch of things for my baby shower and it felt like LO was going to just fall out of me he was so low, and I even get pressure in my butt! Doesn't feel good at all. I officially waddle!!!!

 

[kittycat18]

WSS I went out to get a bunch of things for my baby shower and it felt like LO was going to just fall out of me he was so low, and I even get pressure in my butt! Doesn't feel good at all. I officially waddle!!!!

I know how you feel! I was waddling from the Hospital today to my car... it wasn't pleasant at all xx

 

[Chrissy7411]

WSS I went out to get a bunch of things for my baby shower and it felt like LO was going to just fall out of me he was so low, and I even get pressure in my butt! Doesn't feel good at all. I officially waddle!!!!

I know how you feel! I was waddling from the Hospital today to my car... it wasn't pleasant at all xx

the only way I can sit comfortably is with my legs opened

 

[kittycat18]

the only way I can sit comfortably is with my legs opened

Same I even drive with my legs completely spread and then I start to get pains across my bump or in my pelvis and I try to keep a really concentrated driving face! I fail.

 

[xSarahM]

Greatttt! ^^ all that to look foward to